Been in the closet all this time....

Now, I want to shout out at the top of my lungs...
I SUCK COCK, AND I LIKE IT!

I'm still MOSTLY HETERO, but...I no longer care who knows about my almost 60 year secret! Mind you, I would only own up to it if I were asked about it. Probably won't be taking out any full-page ad in the NYT letting the rest of the world in on it.

Having said all that, I want to thank each and everyone of you, that use this platform for letting me tell you all about my carnal quirks and various sexcapades....keep on fucking and sucking!

 

It is definitely wonderful to be among like-minded friends who you can be yourself around, either virtually or certainly in person. I have a gay Facebook social group that I'm part of that have weekly social get-togethers in a pub, with about 15 or 20 guys coming out every week, some regulars and others changing from week to week. They are an amazing group of guys, many just regular, nice guys that you wouldn't even know are gay, and others a little more obvious, but still really sweet. Even though I come from a bisexual background, it's just nice that they accept me and I can be myself among them, and free to talk about how much I love cock and ass, though we talk about all kinds of regular things. I have also come out to a select few people in my regular life about my sexual orientation, and that is such a freeing, wonderful experience, and they all accept me.

But I agree, sometimes I just want to scream from every rooftop about how much I love cock and gay ass. I now understand a little bit about gay pride, because, it's weird, but I feel really proud of the gay side of myself, and absolutely adore it. I wish every man can feel this joy. I think there's something really special about men loving men. I feel my most masculine when I'm sucking a cock or have my cock deep inside another guy's ass and fucking him.

 

Hey Thom7.
It's great to hear another guy jumped into the pool. I agree, this is a great place to open up. I think of it as a place where I can step out of the closet and into the light but still be safe enough to jump back in if I need to. Great therapy and bonding. I hope to hear about your experiences.
I SUCK COCK TOO! I LOVE SEX WITH MEN AND WOMEN!

 

P_L...we are kindred spirits! I am supposed to meet up with one of my FBs tomorrow! The one with chocolate labia....I hope to lick her belly button, from the inside. Thanks for your input/reply!

 

Hey, p_l....How are you? I've got some free time next week...and am either getting together with my suck-buddy, or (hopefully) a willing/wanting participant for a fuck-lick session/photo-shoot, soon to be reality....I hope!

 

A pity I can't make it. You should live around the corner so I could let you make hay any time you want.

 

MAKE...hay, heck....let's ROLL in it! Ha-ha-ha....

 

Hey y’all. This platform has really helped me too. It’s very therapeutic talking with others alike. It would be great to be able to cum out of the closet but I just can’t. Hanging out with y’all is a great relief and release.

 

I’m in the same boat, I’m in the closet and I love cock, find some men sexually attractive and have enjoyed sex with men.

 

I've never felt the need to expose the fact that I enjoy giving men oral sex, except to those who I'm about to suck off. I've had many conversations with other married men at local pubs to find out they were keeping their activities under wraps as well that has led to some very fun and enjoyable times together. I've always liked keeping the fact that I'm a "cocksucker" hidden from other men until the conversation would allow me enough comfort to expose myself to him knowing he was in need of and wanting something that I am willing to provide. The fact that the guy I just sucked off knows I'm a cocksucker is enough for me.

 

I've never been in the closet because I realized that I didn't really care if anyone else knew that I was having sex with guys, too - but I wasn't about to run around all over the place and letting the whole state know that I'm bisexual. The people who needed to know, knew; those who didn't need to know still don't know and if, by chance, they figured it out, fuck them - ain't nothing they can do about it and, importantly, nothing anyone can say can stop me from being bisexual so to hell with hiding in the closet.

A life lived in fear is a life that's not worth living.

 

I’m only out to my wife got all sorts of mixed emotions about coming out in general to more people

 

Still in the closet here..Ive said it before but it's so refreshing to be around men encouraging each other's love of cock and not supressing it....It feels so good to even type it..
I LOVE COCK!
I want to fuck and suck another hot man and it feels so hot!

 

Yes, the freedom and authenticity you feel the more you come out to yourself and others is extraordinary, and I'm glad we are here for you to take your gay desires out for a test drive. The long journey is still unfolding for myself, as I've written, but it's more recently been fantastic to not only have enjoyed more and more sex with guys, to greater and greater enjoyment (oh my God!), but to have been able to admit to myself and a few people outside of the bi/gay community that I now identify AS MOSTLY GAY! Sometimes I still can't believe it. But to say those words brings me such joy, and excitement.

 

I love cock too. I’ve sucked but have yet to be fucked. I want badly to feel a big cock pounding my hungry ass!

 

Had an interesting first. I had a dream last night that a trans woman started kissing me, and I liked it. We kept making out, and I realized she was grabbing my cock. I slipped my hand down, found hers and started to do the same. Woke up, but I had a hard on like you wouldn't believe.

 

I always thought that more men turning gay meant more women for me. As time went by and thing change, I had to jump ship, just to meet my sexual needs. Who cares what someone else does? Good for them. Aint nobodys bussiness but my own? My wife even says I can suck all the dick I want, as long as it doesn't interfere with our lives and family. She also said that If I were a cheater with other women, she would cut my man parts off .

 

One of the reasons why so many men are hiding out in the closet is the fear of either being gay or being accused of being gay - and then taken behind the woodshed for being gay. It doesn't help that there are way too many people who do not know the difference between a bisexual and a homosexual; they think and believe that just because we'll have sex with a guy, that means we're really gay and should stop being in denial and admit it... and all that shit that one does not have to face when hiding in the closet. The potential for exposure and loss are real issues and possibilities and it's easy to think that if you're in the closet, that lessens your chances of exposure and that's true... for the most part because when you want to get some dick, um, you gotta come out of that closet to be able to get some. Hmm.

I maintain that the worst thing ever is to be bisexual and married and so many men have to hide the fact that they're bi or curious about it from their wife/girlfriend because, historically, women are not fans of guys who sleep with other guys so being in the closet becomes a necessity but this situation makes it hard for a guy in a relationship to come out of that closet out of fear of her finding out. Having said all of this, a lot of guys do not want to cheat on their partner but unless you can get permission from her to get some dick, if you want some, you gotta "sneak out of your closet" to get some and... don't get caught.

I do wonder that if you give up trying to get some dick, does your closet "go away?"

 

Being married and in the closet isn’t terrible. It’s not ideal either, but for me it’s a necessity. The wife have no interest in sex anymore and if I’m going to get any at all it has to be in secret. She has stated she doesn’t care how I take care of it she just doesn’t want to know about it.