Watching your partner having sex with others.

You know a lot of guys Couldn’t handle watching their wife do it with another guy. She’s very lucky that you’re into it.

 

I think we're both lucky .

 

I'm just glad she looked at the threesomes as a special treat for her, and never expected me to give her that kind of a workout by myself.

 

Well we'd have died happy !

 

I know my goal is to find a woman into this. Always been a fantasy for me to see my significant other with another guy.

 

Eye contact in mfm situations is so wonderful. It's part of the reason I don't play with couples who don't have romantic chemistry between themselves. I am very big on sensuality and foreplay. I love it when a couple looks eachother in the eye while we play. I think this is an important part of foreplay. I like to see her naughty grin him at the bar or him give her a passionate omg look when she finally let loose I'm conversation. I love looking him in the eye when we both can see how turned on she is.

 

I agree on all of that. I especially like to see her get invaded and stretched by a big fat one. I'm pretty fat myself, but yeah, that change in perspective.

 

Man you are so right. I love my sweet baby girl to death (and vice versa). She does that with me a lot, pretty much every time when she can. Not just foreplay, I especially love that look she gives me when she's getting off. Same for me when I'm doing another girl. As much as I'm able, I try to catch her eyes and she's always right there.

 

That’s the same for us. We feed off each others happiness when we are having sex with another couple. It truly is our kink. We love it.

 

A lot of times you being right there watching is a big part of why I'm having such a great orgasm

 

That's what my wife said first time another man joined us. Of course, I don't think she liked it any less when I wasn't there.

 

You Bet. I believe she was showing off, to get me interested in her. I guess it worked, because I married her.

 

This makes me so curious to see my wife get fucked by another guy.

 

Seeing my wife have sex with another guy is probably my most potent sexual fantasy.

But I just don't think I could do this. I'm too insecure. I have to admit that about myself.

I have a lot of issues with other men - I was never very athletic or attractive to women growing up or in my 20's and I still carry a lot of that around with me. I just kinda felt and still kinda feel inferior to other men - like I would always lose to another man in a competition of any kind. Weird childhood and teenage issues still make their home in my head.

It's weird - I'm tall and pretty good looking (plenty of women have said very good looking), but I'm also kind of skinny with below average muscularity. Meh. Oh well.

 

You don't need to feel inferior; I went into it not feeling like world's greatest lover, was happy letting girlfriend experience other things. After all I was seeing other women, so couldn't complain. I seen a couple of guys who though they were great, and when their wife's, liked sex with others got their ego burst. They got over it' but pouted for a while.

 

You have to have your head in the right space for it to work . Remember why you're there in the first place and be there for it .

 

No matter how much you talked about, always different when it actually happens.

 

A variation on this that, I would argue, applies to almost everything: get out of your head. Just HAVE the experience. BE the experience. Do it. Enjoy it.

We love watching each other fuck and cum with another. The sharing of it heightens the experience for everyone.

 

Very well said.
Yes, “You” have to get past your own head game.
Swapping and seeing your spouse enjoying themselves as much as you are, only enhances your relationship and does not replace it.

 

Confidence. Start with knowing/embracing what you want and believing somebody else wants the same thing.