Cocksucking/breast feeding: connection?

Ive just had a thought jump at me.
Genuine question.
As breast-fed babies, when we are suckling, what is the size ratio between the nipple and our baby mouths? A nipple is much bigger for a baby to suck than it is for us as adults.

I wonder; for those who try sucking cock whilst adult, and feel addicted immediately, is there some subliminal/sub-conscious thing going on where it feels similar to when we suckled a nipple as a baby.

Also, when the guy cums in your mouth, is that close to what getting milk was like. (I'm not expecting anyone to know or recall the taste lol).

I mean on a sub-conscious level.

Could it be that sucking cock is proportionately similar to baby suckling nipple and that receiving hot cum takes the guy back to that feeling of relaxation or contentment that a baby feels, when being breast-fed?

And is the apparent addiction not because the guy loved receiving hot liquid again but because, like when there's not enough for the baby, he 'cries' until he can find more?

We're all fine for a while after we have sex and have cum. So the need to suck another cock straight after receiving it -seemingly addiction - makes me curious about the possibility that sucking cock is similar to that early lifetime experience.

 

While both breastfeeding and oral behaviors involve the mouth and are connected to nurturing or bonding behaviors, they actually serve different purposes and arise from different developmental stages and contexts.

1. Breastfeeding and Bonding: In infancy, breastfeeding is primarily about providing nutrition and fostering a close, nurturing bond between parent and child. This bond is rooted in survival and emotional connection, with hormonal changes reinforcing the attachment between parent and baby. It also provides a source of comfort and security for the child.
   
   
2. Oral Fixations and Developmental Psychology: In psychology, especially Freud's psychosexual stages, the “oral stage” (from birth to around 18 months) focuses on pleasure and comfort obtained through the mouth. Later behaviors like smoking, nail-biting, or even talking can sometimes be traced back to this oral phase as a source of comfort or tension release. However, this isn't universally accepted and is more a framework for thinking about how habits might form than a strict rule.
   
   
3. Adult Sexual Behavior: Oral behaviors in adults, like kissing or oral sex, are primarily driven by sexual and relational factors rather than nurturing. While these actions can involve bonding or affection, they aren’t typically linked to the developmental or comfort-seeking motivations behind breastfeeding.
   

So, while there may be some generalized connections in terms of oral comfort or bonding mechanisms, the motivations, purposes, and outcomes of breastfeeding and adult sexual behavior are distinct and separate in terms of both psychology and physiology.

 

Interesting!

 

Thanks; yes i get that. However I'm not writing or asking about the motivation behind sucking cock. I was picking up on another thread where when a guy sucked cock for the first time, he was 'addicted'. (No audible pun intended lol)
Just like when I eat a food item, which I haven't eaten in years, i can be mentally transported back to a time - a stage - in my life. And re-live it.
It's on that level that I'm basing my curiosity and question.

Is there - or might there be - something triggered from a guys infant time, when, after sucking on something fleshy and warm, and of similar relative proportion to the infant/nipple ratio, followed by warm liquid, that sub-consciously is as pleasurable for him as the infant breast-feeding.

Again, it's a question about the sensations of giving the bj, not to do with the reason for doing it the first time.

 

I've always thought and felt that oral fixation has something to do with how satisfying it is to suck on... something. I thought that Freud's peers thought he was off his rocker but perhaps not so much and since his "theories" tend to get laughed at, I can see how it's not universally accepted - but there aren't too many other things that can explain how a guy can suck cock and, holy shit - how come I've never done this before? With or without getting a mouthful of cum, sucking on a guy's dick - and even sucking on a woman's pussy - can be, whew, you know how that feels, don't you? When I've had people who aren't into oral sex ask me why people engage in oral sex, I've asked them to do a rather simple thing: Put your thumb or a finger in your mouth and suck on it for a few minutes and then tell me how it made you feel... other than feeling silly to be an adult and sucking your thumb.

While some didn't want to admit that it felt good to do that, others were like, "Yeah, um, that felt good, but..." and what follows the "but" is their thoughts against oral sex. I know that I spent years trying to find the answer to why sucking a guy's dick can feel so damned wonderful and even in those moments when I wasn't sexually aroused to do it but, okay, let's get this over with and... why didn't I want to do this when it feels so fucking good in my mouth? A lot of guys I know who sucked dick for the first time got "hooked" on it and, again, they wanted to know why and if they weren't orally fixated before, perhaps now they are and in a rather "sinful" way - which I also thinks contributes to why it feels good to suck cock.

 

I don't believe that any direct evidence that cock-sucking in adulthood would lead to addiction solely based on early breastfeeding experiences, the emotional and psychological connections formed during infancy could influence the desire for similar comforting behaviors later in life.

 

Apologies but I can't make sense of your post, unless the comma after experiences were to be a full stop.
If it should be a full stop then, i think, you may be agreeing with my thought.

I'll pose it more simply, if I may.
Could sucking cock as an adult awaken those sub-conscious emotional and psychological connections - where the act of sucking breast is one such emotional and psychological connection.
Im not suggesting breast-feeding makes guys want to suck cock in adult life. To do so I think, would be absurd.
However in the reverse, I wonder, if once they've done it, and they feel warm and fussy, whether that's sucking followed by receiving ejaculate sub-consciously takes those guys back to that still sub-conscious pleasure.

I guess I'll need to ask a psychiatrist or psychologist.

 

"Vell ... Zen zair ish no Pleeezink you."

--- (Goldmember)

 

Your thoughts are exactly what I’ve thought about my love for sucking cock, simply having a cock in my mouth, and the enjoyment of cum oozing into my mouth.

There’s a comfort, a relaxed feeling, and contentment that comes from sucking cock. It’s such an amazing sensation I had to think it through myself and for me I arrived at the conclusion you’ve stated. It takes me back to those comfortable days when sucking brought life.

 

I don't see how there could be any connection between breast feeding and sucking cock. I wasn't breast fed as a baby, but from age 15-36 I loved to suck on a woman's breasts and her pussy. I wanted them all the time. Then I found myself sucking on another man's cock at age 36 while he was sucking on mine. It was a very different feeling to be sucking on a cock, but a very satisfying feeling as well. The more dicks I sucked the more I wanted to keep sucking dick. When I'm with a guy, his cock has a mesmerizing power over me. I want it in my mouth, I need it in my mouth, and that mesmerizing power does not go away until he shoots his load of cum into my mouth to savor and swallow.

 

Interesting observation here about breast feeding being totally out of the equation.

I wonder if there is some sort of scientific study that helps reveal the answer to this question, why do we love it so much and why is it such a transcendental experience for us?

I arrived at my conclusion without any external explanations, just my theory. I love sucking cock and I often wonder why.

 

I know why I enjoy sucking cock and have provided close to 4,000 blowjobs over the past 25 years. Most I gave to my suck buddy over the past 12 years, I love sucking on his big cock and swallowing his load of cum. More and more men, many who consider themselves straight have discovered the many joys that sucking cock provides them and the guy they are sucking off. It all starts with curiosity and finding out yes, I like it or nah, it's not for me but at least I tried it. For me personally I was in the middle at first but could not suppress the power of curiosity to do so again, and again, and again until I finally concluded that this is something I seriously enjoy providing other men. I've evolved into a cock sucker as the curiosity became a passion of mine as my oral skills got better with each blowjob provided. Everything about a man's cock is enjoyable to me.
1) The scent of a freshly showered cock
2) The softness of his freshly shaved balls
3) The sponginess of his flaccid member when first entering my mouth
4) Feeling it growing thicker and longer in my mouth
5) His moans of pleasure that inspire me to do the best I can
6) Sucking on his soft, shaved balls while gently stroking his shaft
7) Sucking only on the head of his cock as he's raging hard now
8) Sliding my puckered lips up and down each side of his raging boner
9) Flicking my tongue around the underside of the head of his cock while fondling his balls
10) Taking his entire cock into my mouth and hearing his louder moans of pleasure
11) Feeling his 8-10" cock entering my throat as I slide my tongue out against his balls as he grabs hold of my head
12) Hearing him announce he is about to cum or is going to cum, my reward is near
13) The feeling of him squirting his load of cum into my mouth as his shaft twitches

My mouth is now full of his cum as I swish it around within my mouth to get a good taste of it before swallowing it. I know why I love to suck cock!

 

I learned a long time ago in my bartender days, that it doesn't matter what you do. I do it for pleasure , plain and simple. Sucking on lucious tits, or sucking a hard cock has nothing to do with anything other than the pleasure at hand." Its all good"

 

Well your earlier post didn't make grammatical sense, whatever value it could have added to the chat.
Throwing slang insults ain't clever. (Goldmember)

 

Beautiful post!!!!!

 

I got hard reading this!