Advice or opinions or thoughts needed.....

Ok, longish story. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. Weve been together nearly 16months and hes my first proper boyfriend weve been together since i was 16. I always suspected hed done dodgy things on the internet id have found weird pictures of other girls and weird email addresses and chat sites on his pc but hed always convince me there was nothing going on and i was paranoid and should stop looking through his pc. Hed shout at me when i questioned him about it and got really angry which made me think i was just paranoid and he wouldnt act like that if he had.
Hed also wind up his friends' ex girlfriends who hed never met ringing them up with his group of friends which i thought was weird but there was nothing one on one so i ignored it.
A few weeks ago i found pictures of him wanking on his phone and hed sent them to a contact called craig. I rang the number and it was a girl. I also found texts on his phone from a different named male contact (which was obviously a woman) asking if he still wanted a threesome as shed split up with her boyfriend. After trying to lie his way out of it he admitted hed been ringing and texting this girl who turned out to be a work friends girlfriend. His friend had pissed him off and he and some others had been talking to her. Hed been telling her hed have sex with her and ringing her and sent her these pictures. He admitted when hed gone into the bathroom when i was at his house hed rung her but insisted it was to say not to tell her boyfriend that hed spoken to her and claims all other calls and texts were done in a group however he was the only one sending pictures and all the texts were from his phone.
A few days later i found a few junk emails from girls (the ones where it says invitation to join such and such a chat site or upsating my address book types) whose names i had never heard of. He admitted then he spoke to girls on chatrooms. He said he likes the inexpereinced but experienced dirty talk between him and these girls. (what we did before i lost my virginity to him). He said it didnt arouse him but i dont believe that. And he says he didnt see them on cam but im not sure of that either.
He says hes always done it through other relationships also and has a problem with it. But when he knew i was thinking of finishing our relationship he said he could stop. He says hed never physically cheated and would never do so.
I dont know what to do or think. Things have been much better since he admitted everything but my body image now is poor and i cant help being paranoid even more so. Ive said i want to be with him and hes promised me he will never lie again.
I just want thoughts or opinions on this as my head is all over the place! Ask any questions if any of that didnt make sense.
Thanks for reading it all if you took the time
Didnt know where to post this so its in the love and sex topic too.

 

I posted my anser in the love and sex forum. I hope you take me seriously. THis guy is no good and he won't change so I suggest you find someone new unless you feel like being cheated on 24/7

 

Babydoll, that happened to me too, then, well, I walked in on them in *my* bed..Just dont get hurt okay sweetness? always remember even when u get hurt, Someone loves you, will love you soon, and Someone who will never stop..understand? Your Rents and Friends, your future mate, and The God/Goddess/Alah/ect.....

 

Find a different guy, who appreciates you more, and shows it. Find a guy you can trust. Sticking with your current bf will drive you nuts. You deserve better. If your current bf miraculously goes to a counselor, admits in detail all the stuff & times he's done you wrong, apologizes, and proves over time that he cares about and appreciates you a LOT more, then you might consider keeping him. Otherwise, dump him. Good luck.