Your thoughts on BDSM?

Power exchange play can be truly amazing.

But, as Irminsul said, the real power always is with the sub. Anything else is douchebaggery.

 

A dear friend of mine was Dominatrix. She had her bevy of pets she stood over. Some she really whipped hard while they were restrained. None ever had sex with her. She just wouldn't allow it. She would allow orgasm during play but no actual sex. Of course orgasm was allowed as a reward and there would be hell to pay if a pet came before allowed. But then that was part of the play too. Denial and punishment for misbehaving.

There are many forms of BDSM play. Some very light and vanilla as portrayed in the Fifty Shades movies. Some are downright violent on the opposite extreme. Cock Ball Torture comes to mind here. Then there's play in the middle where most BDSM is done. As far as the amputations mentioned in other posts there have been some people who have had it done. This type of play is very far and few in between but given the billions of human personalities and psyches in the world it has happened.

 

I have two friends that are submissive. Neither really wants anyone to know and it's not a subject that we talk about much. One is also into spanking and I'll get a call when she needs one although she doesn't flat out ask for it. Both of these girls have lots of friends and I doubt that any of them really know how they are behind closed doors.

 

We just called it Kinky Fun. My wife took the Femdom Wife role and I was on the other end of whatever they had in store for me. It was part of my wifes femdom photography era. While most was staged for the camera, I did get benefits of submitting to her will. Electro Stimulas wands, dildos, restaints,blindfolds, were all part of it. It was Very Thrilling, to say the least. I had experiences that most would only dream of and No Regrets about anything.

 

I had a few coworkers who were into it but never what it was until I met my new gal did I realize she was into it. It started with spanking and name calling. Now we bought a paddle, nipple clamps, a butt plug, dildos and of course handcuffs. We both love it and share cums so hard when we venture into BDSM