Why do you choose top or bottom?

I think I am going to get into anal on a regular basis because its hard to beat pumping a load of cum into someone who is begging for it.

Willing top, happy to bottom, too. Dom top if you need someone to fuck your brains out.

 

Exactly. Riding is awesome since you can control the motion. Then you're bottoms up waiting for it. The spasms, grunts, and finally the reward I thought about letting a guy cum in me and what it would like, too. That would be great.

 

We are of like mind. We could do a side conversation some time if you would like.

Good to know your a giving person !

 

Your donation would be appreciated by more than a few of us I think!

 

Cool

 

Think my replies got mixed up…it’s all good!

 

I guess all you have to do is tap your emoji and hit “start conversation”. Does that sound right? Have you done it before?

 

I haven't. I'll give it a try.

 

There are lots of reasons to choose top or bottom but I think men who are truly bisexual will be both. For sure with my wife I'm her top and lead the charge. She enjoys being submissive and I enjoy dominating her. It's a static relationship and roles.
With other men it's different. With a guy who is more effeminate than me, I top him by being in charge. Sometimes that means I make him sit down so I can blow him even though he just wants to blow me. Sometimes it means I mount him and ride him. But more often than not I prefer a guy who is more masculine than me and uses me like his bitch. I like how it feels to give myself up to him and doing what he wants to please him.

 

I am versatile all the way. I love getting sucked until I cum and I love sucking until the guy cums in my mouth. I enjoy the feeling of his dick pulsating and knowing that I did a good job. I enjoy fucking a tight ass and it feels great as a dick rubs my prostate.

 

For me, becoming a Top or a Bottom was not a matter of choice... I'm a total bottom and I've never even given a thought to being a Top.... I have a very small penis and I don't think I could please a man or woman with it... I've pretty much failed the few times I've tried... I knew I was a natural bottom from the start.... I enjoy being penetrated and fucked by a well endowed man.... I never even involve my little dicklet at all unless the guy tries to stimulate it by flicking it with his fingers or slapping his cock against it... That makes me feel like a woman getting my pussy played with an it can get me really excited if the guy is good at it....

 

Yes

 

Speaking as a bottom, exclusively...

Possibly has something to do with the actual feeling of what you gals get to experience...that squirt of semen, INSIDE you. And then too, there's the prostate massage issue. But then, that's only MY take on it...what say the other bottoms out there?

 

Back in my mid-late 30's during my first marriage I searched out guys to give and get blowjobs with out of sexual neglect from her as well as curiosity. To my surprise it was far more enjoyable than I ever expected and found myself doing so multiple times a week. It wasn't until much later in life in my second marriage that my present wife began to stimulate my anus, penetrate it with vibrators and dongs while giving blowjobs. They she suggested I take a real cock in my ass. Having fucked my first wife at least 1,000 in the ass I was now curious to find out why she enjoyed it so much. OMG, like sucking cock, taking it up the ass was far more enjoyable than I ever expected. I've only fucked one man in the ass but have been fucked in the ass by many men and love everything about receiving anal sex. Total bottom here.

 

I definitely enjoy being both. Sometimes I just want to be fucked so I bottom and enjoy the feeling as he slides in and out, whether it's my mouth or my ass. Other times I want to be the top. A lot of the time my friend and and are both in the same session. After we suck each other for awhile, one of us will fuck the other and then we switch. We both get to enjoy both positions.

 

Nature endowed me with a dicklet so small that it is almost impossible for me to fully penetrate anyone ( woman or man).... If the head of my dicklet is able to penetrate, any movement results in it popping out completely.... So, it's been years since I have attempted using it as a sexual implement.... The interesting situation here is that nature has also assigned me bottom status.... As far back as I can recall, in my mind, I've identified as a bottom (even before I actually assumed that role to pleasure a man).... I quivered from excitement that first time so intensely that I actually felt faint... I knew then, beyond any shred of doubt, that I AM a natural bottom and have never so much as though of topping anyone ( man or woman } since.... Is this in any way resultant from the fact that I'm physically unable to top without the possible use of some type of sex aide ??? Possibly....Natural physiology MAY have dictated it.... Of course I have no way of being sure.... Regardless, I'm quite content with my role as a total bottom ....

 

It just seemed natural for me to do so being I was really wanting to experience being fucked in the ass. Luckily, like my ex-wife had a good first-time experience that opened the door to some fantastic sex that provided more pleasure than imaginable.

 

I probably mentioned this before but I've been versatile from the beginning: If I can do it to you, you can do it to me, okay? So, in the beginning, that's how deals were made and we felt that it wasn't fair to not do it this way - and the only exception was the gay sissy kid in our group who was all bottom, all day, every day. If you didn't want to do it both ways, eh, we pretty much had no use for you unless you made a good case for why I can do it to you in your butt but you won't do it to me in mine.

I grew up into a sexual world where guys were either tops or bottoms, either bi or gay, and so much for a truer meaning of "mutual satisfaction" - except I never found a reason to not be versatile, and this included being able to adjust to the guy's preferences that I was about to have sex with. I did get to a point where I wondered what would happen if two tops or two bottoms got interested in each other and my preliminary answer was, "Nothing, because their sameness cancels each other out, I think..." Then I discerned that there are tops and bottoms... and guys who will top or bottom and there was, inexplicably, a somewhat clear distinction and more so when you could top me and I'm ready to turn right around and top you - but top and bottom had become defined roles while being versatile was... a bit murky and in a sexual world where, now, you were either one or the other... but not both. I'd tell a top that I was versatile and for way too many of them, this was a deal breaker because they just assumed that I'd want to fuck them or I'd break the deal because they acted like I was a bottom and I was going to be submissive and subservient to them and, nope, you can kiss my ass on that one, dude.

And I'm still versatile and quite unwilling to get stuck in one role or the other.

 

I choose neither. I prefer to keep my M/M encounters to oral only. In other words nothing, but mouth to penis and ball contact only for both of us!!!

 

Bottom for me. When I'm with women I've always been the one in charge, so it's nice to be the recipient of someone else's desires. I love to be spanked while my lover is fucking me. It's a role that I step in and out of. I'm not interested in being a sub outside the bedroom.

I enjoy walking into another man's house, stripping down to my panties and doing whatever pleases him. After that we go back to our regular lives. If we're both happy it's good to hook up on a regular basis.