Not attracted to me but love cocks and cum.

This is me to a "T". I recently fully came out to my wife that I want to try cock in every way. To my pleasant surprise, I learned that some of her kinks are very similar to mine even to the point that she is sometimes turned on by the thought of me and another guy together in her presence so she could watch.

But I told her, and it's 100% true, that my only interest in other men is for the cock. I don't know why, but I have zero interest in kissing, cuddling, etc with another man. I also like trans girls a lot too. I've never had any experiences with either, but am dying to try.

All that said, I'm happily married for 22 years and still very much enjoy sex with my wife. But she is pretty bashful and it's teln me years to learn this about her, but I'm thrilled to know I'm not "alone" in my marriage when in comes to my kinks. We may never act on them, but it's fun talking with her about it now that I can. We both got very horny when things started to come out and had great sex three night in a row, not bad for a couple our age I think.

Anyway, sorry for rambling...I just joined the forum and was excited to tell someone...

But back to the original question, yeah, there is at least one other guy whose only interest in other men involves their cock alone....ME!

 

This is great to hear that your wife admitted she would like to witness you with another guy as mine did while we were dating and I told her I've sucked dick. You should do as I did with my wife before she actually did get to witness me sucking my man's cock. I purchased a 10", rather thick rubber dong for her to hold between her legs as I sucked on it, she got so wet and began talking dirty to me telling me to suck her big cock. The sex that night was fantastic.

 

From 30 to 51, I was totally there with most of you, only interested in cock and feeling no attraction to the rest of the guy's body, let alone his heart. And while sucking the 200++ cocks and the guys sucking mine, I felt no emotional connection to the guys. But then at 51 I developed mindblowing lust for this young twink's ass like I've never experienced before, and tonguefucked his hole for over an hour before finally fucking him. When my cock was deep inside of him, I felt a very deep emotional connection to him (my first time with another man) and a powerful connection to my gay side that I absolutely loved. From then on I was all about anal (but still loved to drain a guy's cock of his cum), and loved lots of body contact and passionate kissing.

Now, 10 years later, though I still find women very gorgeous and feel sexually attracted to them, if I'm really honest with myself I don't actually want to have sex with them anymore. In fact, the appearance of a pussy in porn pictures and videos nauseates me: I don't find them attractive at all anymore, unless they're innies. But I still love breasts! And for the first time a couple of years ago I began being attracted to some guys on the street with all their clothes on, finding them cute, and checking out their asses, feeling desire to fuck them.

And three times now I've had romantic feelings for another guy: (i) once with a platonic straight friend of mine; (ii) once with a younger Asian guy that I was super attracted to for a year or more (he was part of a large gay social group that I got together with weekly; and I still do, though he's gone since he got a boyfriend); and (iii) now with a close gay friend of mine who is married to another guy, but whose mind and heart I like a lot, whose body I find super cute, and whose cock I adore (the three of us have been naked together three times in social settings and we stroked each other's cocks the last time). But even though his ass is super cute, and OMG do I ever want to fuck it, he's a top. The other problem is I don't have sexual intercourse with guys in relationships (I have seen even in open relationships guys feeling pain when their partner is fucking another guy, and I don't want to cause anybody pain). So even though I am actively looking to lose my bottom virginity, and I would love for this guy to be that man for me, I won't do it.

Yes, I'm still technically bisexual for sure, but I'm just happy living a gay life now. So it's been quite the evolution for me. Mostly for me it's been about letting go of strong internalized homophobia that developed after a bad break up with my pre-adolescent boyfriend and lots of school bullying before high school.

 

I hear ya Brother.

 

I definitely have this on my bucket list. I'm not attracted to them either, but if the vibe is good and we're on the same page then I'm all for it.

 

I do find a physically fit man attractive but I’m more into the body of a man than I am attracted to there faces ..

 

Nice

 

I’ve been absolutely obsessed with cock lately. I can’t stop thinking about sucking off multiple guys and swallowing their loads. I’m getting hard just thinking about it.

 

Definitely me, cock feels great in my mouth

 

My bisexuality started that way. I was only interested in a man’s cock. However after several years I have found I’m increasingly attracted to the man also. I would have never wanted to kiss a guy several years ago now having done so I find it enjoyable also.

 

I recently discovered my attraction and lust for cock. It has probably been there in some form as I always enjoyed porn featuring women giving blow jobs or being fucked by a large cock. Still, I went out last night to see live music and could not help but notice all the hot attractive women. But, when I got home, I jerked off to videos of men sucking each other off.

 

That's how it was for me in the beginning. After I first allowed my gay side to burst out of my unconscious prison, I would be out feeling so attracted to women, feeling so turned on by their beauty, but later that night at home would always spend hours jerking off to gay porn. Eventually that day after day gay lust at home would drive me out to fulfil my cock fantasies in bathhouses and other gay sex venues for the real stuff.

Even now, 30 years later, women out there are still a huge turn on, but at home it's always gay porn, fantasies and reading and writing in forums like this (for example, even right now I'm stroking my hard cock like crazy while I'm dictating this into my phone and feeling so gay). But the difference now is that I sometimes get turned on by men out there just like women (I mean, I see a guy's cute ass in his tight jeans, or his big package in front, and I begin drooling and fantasizing sucking and fucking him, just like I do with clothed women). But now I'm hooking up with guys through online dating sites and apps in each other's homes, enjoying much greater intimacy with them, and even dating guys (going out to dinner with them or to Pride events). It's infinitely better than just exclusively jerking off to gay porn.

 

What I take from that is you still like Tits.
Tits, Boobs, Funbags, etc. the day you stop liking them is the day you start to worry, big fan of tits but I'm hoping to try cock too.

 

I’m in a similar situation. When I was young I used to get a strange feeling in my stomach when I saw muscular men. In my late teens, I developed a fetish for women’s feet, but was also turned on by blowjob porn. A big event for me was seeing (25 years ago) a photo of a transsexual woman getting a blowjob from a clearly excited man. I knew immediately that cock is a turn on for me.

Nowadays, when watching a straight blowjob video, I want to be in the woman’s position sucking a large and veiny cock. I have spent a lot of time reading gay erotic fiction and now want to go to a men only masturbation club. The idea of mutual masturbation is a big turn on.

I have only given one blowjob and I clearly enjoyed the experience given my erection. Tantric massages from gay men are a secret pleasure, as is phone sex with men and sharing dick pics. I love the thrill of having phone sex with a man who likes a photo of my cock.

I’d use a gay cruising app to find a man for blowjobs, but STDs are a huge worry and condoms aren’t popular.

I’m probably a hetero-romantic bisexual. I haven’t kissed a man, but if I like it I wouldn’t rule out a homosexual relationship.

 

Have you imagined yourself in the woman’s place in a blowjob video? I do, but as myself sucking a cock. Reverse POV porn is dynamite.

 

Often, I am not always attracted to males, like I am to a females. Since I am bisexual, I usually do enjoy the sex with most all humans, male or female and I have never turn down providing sexual pleasures with most and I will do my best to please most folks each and every time!

 

It's 2024 and guys still seem to think that you have to be attracted to a man and like you would be to a woman, or they have the need to point this out and that's just... ridiculous. One might not be romantically attracted to men but it's more than okay to be sexually attracted to men even if the only thing that gets your dick hard is getting your hands on his dick.

We need to squash that bullshit that keeps making men state that they're not attracted to men like they are women and the presumption that if you are attracted to a man, you must be attracted to him like you would be a woman and because, um, fucking duh, women are very different creatures. N ow, is it okay to specify that you're not romantically attracted to men like you are women? Sure, that's fine as long as you're specific because "attracted" can open a huge can of worms that one might not want opened.

I'm sorry but I've been hearing this "not attracted" thing since I was... 11? 12? And the more I heard it, the less sense it made and it would tick me off to have to repeatedly explain to people that I am not romantically attracted to guys like I am girls and then having to deal with them not being able to understand but, then again, they saw me as a gay guy faking being a straight guy a lot of times and only God knows how many times I've had to correct people about that one, too. I would venture to say that "most of us" are attracted to the sex with guys and... that's about the size of it. We can be friends, FWB, fuck/suck buddies but anything beyond that, i.e., we're going to be boyfriends and fall madly in love with each other? Yeah, let's not and say we did on that one! Although, if this is how a bi guy is feeling about other guys, there's nothing wrong with that.

Being real, I did fall in love with a guy. Amazing. Marvelous. Confusing as fuck. But that was him and maybe one other guy in the entirety of my life because with those two exceptions, I'm attracted to the sex with guys oh, and just like I'm attracted to sex with the ladies but romantically? Not even in the same neighborhood and I maintain that it doesn't have to be. We just need to stop saying that and especially when, duh, you're talking to other bi guys who also know that they're not attracted to men like they are women...

Okay. Rant over.

 

I love sucking cock, but not attracted to men. I see women out in public and think, "I would do her". I have never thought about a man that way. Now if I a see a naked cock I think "I would like to suck that". With women I like to kiss and cuddle. With men it's all about sex, and I enjoy it tremendously.

 

I'm Bi and yes attracted to sex with men married to a Women my Wife she knows I'm Bi. Just not romantically attracted to men but deff attracted to sex with men and some of that may change because now I'm thinking I would like some kind of relationship with a man. Then it comes down to now I just have to find a man that I connect with or can be friends with and maybe go from there

 

This was a key turning point in the beginning of my bi experiences. Just as you did, I did with my wife. I had a long double dildo and she had one end of it in her. She held it up with the other end pointing at my face. I took hold of it and took it into my mouth and sucked it. I think she actually enjoyed watching me sucking it , more than having the other end fucking her. After that, she would always tease me by holding a dildo to my lips, expecting me to suck it. I could see the intensity in her eyes as she watched me suck it. She never imagined what it was like and it excited her., me as well. It was a long time before she ever watched me do it for real.