I'm still hopeful some moms will answer my questions. My college minor is psychology. A moms real life experience with this issue would help with our in class discussion on adolescent sexuality. My professor is male and no kids and all my class mates are in their early twenties.
Like most responders here, I am not a mom. And like other posters, my mom was extremely conservative regarding anything sexual. thank goodness my dad was more open-minded. I was still living at home as a freshman in college, classes in the mornings and working late afternoons and evenings. I had a really cute coworker, but she was out of my league. That did not stop her from flirting with me. I guess you figured I was safe. Anyway, after one particular evening at work, she really had me worked up. I couldn’t wait to get off work and get home. Got in my room, Closed the door behind me, stripped, and got into bed with my small jar of Vaseline and my old rag and started going to town. I don’t know how long she was standing there in the doorway, but when I saw her, I tried covering up. I was mortified! The only thing she said was that she was just checking to make sure I got home OK, left the room and close the door behind her. Well there went that. The next morning is I was getting ready to go to class nothing was said between us. She left the kitchen in and walked my dad. Apparently my mom had said something to him after she saw me. He just smiled at me and said don’t worry about it. She’ll get over it. We all do it. Just next time lock the darn door! It took a while before I can be comfortable enough to do it again at home. But I made sure the door was locked.
Related in a way I suppose. My wife told me that she’d noticed that the toilet water was frothy one morning and asked if I knew what it was. I did, I’d masturbated and emptied my load in the toilet before I cleaned up. A quick flush and off I went. I didn’t realise that my load would need two flushes to be completely gone. Lesson learned. Roll on a few years and the toilet water is showing the same issue. You’ll get that with a teenage son. I haven’t told him about the double flush. And I haven’t explained to the wife either. But she also hasn’t brought it up so I’m thinking she’s cottoned on? One day I may discuss it with her…..I’ll update this forum if and when that happens.
There's no way I could've kept my hands off my cock in that kind of situation. I would've been hard all of the time. How did you keep from jacking off?
I think parent who shame their children can do live long "damage". Masturbation is one of the biggest, especially with boys. They won't stop, they will find a way, and that may lead to adding to the "damage"; going off into the woods, being caught by other people because you are not in your bedroom or bathroom. This is just a thought process, not a lecture. Just saying, even if the parent doesn't want to broach the subject, let you child have their bedroom privacy.
I a gree. I like to know what pare thinking and how they handle situations but hardly any gives enough detail.
You would actually masturbate and shot a load in the living room while the rest of your family just sat and watched tv.?. If trye, please be detailed
Me too. I'm not expecting, "I marched right in there, grabbed his cock and tucked out all of him man juice." I want to know, how did you get yourself over the situation. What was or is yor thought process.
My mother caught me, his was about 40 years ago. It was horror. I was extremely embarrassed. Thankfully my mom was cool, she never mentioned it ever and acted like it never happened. She didn't tell my father, I would have known it. He ran the household 100%, I would have absolutely heard it from him if she did.
My mom caught me twice. She spanked me both times. That only encouraged it. Probably not the effect she was going for. Ha
My class has ended, but I'm still hopeful a few moms will tell us their experiences and how they felt about seeing and or hearing their son masturbating.