The Great Big Anal Sex Thread!

my friend and i was haveing sex and well he got me up the ass lol ...it hurt alittle at first and then it felt really fucking good...you will get used to it

 

Alright, even though I've never had any experience with anal sex or self-penetration whatsoever, whats the deal behind it that makes it erotic?

Like for me, I'll definitely try it when I get older with a boyfriend (hopefully), since it is passionate in it's own way. So in that case, it's erotic in that sense.

I've recently discovered through research that the reason why anal sex is such a huge sexual issue for men more than women is because we have the prostrate gland, which arouses men to have an orgasm and ejaculate when touced.
Since the inside of a man's anus has a lump which is part of the prostrate gland inside of us, it would make sense that the constant penetration and motion of the penis in a man's anus would lead the other guy to ejaculate.

For those who have experience, is that so, or makes sense? Aside from all of the pain that occurs due to the contraction of the anus around whatever is being placed inside, is there still that significant feeling of pleasure and arousal that leads you to engage in an orgasm or close to it?

 

If you are relaxed and the guy is using lube and going slow, there will be minimal discomfort at first. As you become aroused it will become easier and you will begin to feel pleasure from it. Personally for me the most intense orgasms I have had are while receiving anal sex either with another guy or with a dildo.

 

I would agree.....my man loves when I stick my vibrator up his ass, he gets off alot harder and much more intense!

 

sound like you get off on doing this as well . lucky guy. just dont let the rumor get around.

 

The prostate really can only be stimulated well through the anus. Oh, sure, there can be all kinds of psychological play along with it relating to submission etc. but the core value IMHO is what I call a man's G-Spot, the prostate. For me there is also a psychological value of "giving myself" to my partner but I don't think that it is necessary for enjoyment of this.
I think I have mentioned this before but I have orgasms anally with penetration. Usually not with any ejaculate but it has happened. I had a partner who set out to see how many times he could make me ejaculate (10)so he gave me oral sex while stimulating me anally so that was different but it was quite an afternoon & that wasn't the only play we had that day. I have only a few times had any pain from penetration but usually my partners have had some good lubricant & have taken it slowly. I do have a pretty good handle on being able to relax myself so I'm sure that helps.

I am always amazed when my Doctor appologizes before she gives me a prostate exam. It feels so good I almost ask for more. There are 2 Doctors who see our family that job share both are Women about my age. Both give good anal but one is just a little better than the other & she always gives a love pat or two on my tush when she is done which makes it a little more intimate. Please don't get me wrong they are professional about this but I can't help but enjoy this & the one who adds the love pats I think recognizes it a little more & if she or they are enjoying it themselves they are still business like enough about it that they wouldn't let on. Anyhow, I'm not about to complain in any way. If I can get some good feeling out of the poking & proding that is the usual anual check-up that is fine with me. I just came out to them so it will be interesting to see how these yearly things go in the future. Sorry I'm rambling but the point is a prostate is a very fun thing even if it is stimulated with just a finger. I do have to add though that I have had it "milked" by a urologist. He managed to do this without my feelingany enjoyment from it. I was quite disappointed.

You can experience prostate stimulation yourself to a certain extent without anything more than your finger(s) & some lubricant. Your prostate is most likely reachable if you feel for it & believe me you will know when you have found it. It isn't quite the same as having a man's penis doing the job but it still beels quite good.

If I remember correctly the details have been covered in another thread. Try a search for anal sex or maybe taking it up the ass. I can't remember right now. If you can't find it go ahead & PM me I can go into it in more detail if you want.

 

I LOVE it! No pain whatsoever! Sometimes I may get a pain a few hours later from air that has gotten trapped inside during the encounter, but thats easy enough to take care of!

 

I usually give, being intro younger guys and all. The first guy who ever gave it to me when I was a young sprite had biceps the size of tree trunks, and I was so happy to be wrapped up in'em that if here was any pain, I don't remember it!

I had a guy that I slept with once who was kinda small and just a freshman in college and it kind of hurt him when I tried to go in, so I laid on my back and let him be on top and go down as slowly as he wanted. It was great fun! We're still friends.

 

Oh, my gods I love to be on top. After so many times I got used to the feeling, but at first it was a little weird, just a little. I'd been doing myself, practicing like, for quite awhile. I can cum with no penile stimulation too, if it's really hot times.

Also, hi everyone! I'm not exactly new here, but it's been awhile. I had a different name though, which I don't feel I need to be forthcoming with.

 

Masturbation reached new levels of pleasure the day I bought my first vibrating anal butt plug. The intensity of my orgasm was incredible and I can only imagine what it would be like if it were a real penis.

I can't imagine any of the girls I 've ever been with being able to understand this pleasure. More people need to be made aware of this hidden pleasure.

 

this thread is great

 

okay...i have a question. my bf and i haven't had anal yet and we want to. we decided i'd be on bottom for the first time. i've been putting it off though because i'm worried about it getting messy. Is there any way to tell when a good time to do it is? And would it be a total turn off if there was some 'stuff' there? i'm so worried could someone please give me some advice?

 

Lots of guys and gals alike enjoy "natural" anal sex, which means you don't use an enema and there will be waste on the penis/condom. It washes off! Do it when you're relaxed (not drinking because you're not aware and could hurt yourself) and use LOTS of water-based lube (KY or Wett or something similar). Don't rush it, and if it hurts too badly, stop. If you want to use an enema so your anus is clean, remember to stay hydrated and give yourself a good butt-washing after you've finished going to the bathroom. Remember, anal sex isn't for everyone. (The ancient Greeks had a VERY gay-friendly culture, yet anal sex was unheard of.) Be prepared to feel like you have to go to the bathroom during sex; it's natural, but believe it or not, you won't.

 

make sure you are really loose. have your partner finger you to get you loose, maybe even a small dildo and LOTS of lube, be very relaxed and take it SLOWLY. Let him enter and then stay still, when you are comfortable take some more of him, pause and repeat.

 

IF you don't want to go through the hassle of an enema, keep hydrated and make sure you have a healthy movement and a good cleaning before you engage in anal sex. But don't be suprised if there's still something there. It's to be expected when engaging in an activity like this. You should use a condom for obvious reasons, but also to help keep things a bit cleaner for him, just in case. happy rimming!

 

its hot

 

See, where I stand, I'm not into it in terms of pleasure, you know? It kinda skeeves me out to take it up the ass, since I've NEVER had anything up my ass, except for a thermometer...lol...But that was a LONG time ago.

But, I AM curious towards anal sex, and would be willing to try it or mabe someday do it with myself...

To the rest of you when you first got plugged, whether with another guy or with yourself, were your thoughts towards it skeevy or uninterested at first? Did you grow on it? lol

 

thank you so much!! i feel a bit better about all this now. is there anything i could change in my diet so there might be less waste present, though? or anyway to know? are you sure it won't make him uncomfortable or ruin the mood? i feel like such a wrry wort but i can't help it. you guys are great. thank you all again.

 

Kokuei, most people find this suprising, but it takes food about 12 hours t ogo from mouth to ass. If you eat very very lightly for the twelve hours before hte deed, yuou should eb okay. Have a light snack beforehand, but nothing too much. Remember that sex is exercise -- eat enough for energy, but not enough to slow you down.

 

really!? i had no idea...okay i'll try that then. thank you so much! <smile>