Sharing my spanking fetish, want to share yours?

I know there are online "hookup" sites for guys who want to be spanked by other guys and who also want to spank others guys; just do a "Google" search----I think one such site is called "WHAPZZZ"----hope this helps--------

 

I love to give and to get when I need it. My favorite part of it is getting into my headspace as a caring, strict dad or as a apologetic middle school kid with a bad attitude and bad report card and he’s finding out what tier earned him. For me, spanking is more about the connection with your emotions and with your partners. It’s very cathartic and heady

 

Much like you I am spanked by my wife about every 10 days. She is not really into it but as time passes she is getting better. I too think about being spanked by an older man. My problem is when I have had enough I ask my wife to stop and she does because she doesn’t want to hurt me. BTW we are both over 75 years of age.

 

You should consider trying that. I was offered a spanking quite a few years ago by a mature adult female, with no obligation. After the first introduction, I found out how erotic it can be.

 

I think one of the most erotic things about OTK spanking is knowing that whoever is spanking you is focused ONLY on your BUTT, and taking great pleasure in giving it the workout it so deserves.,

All f/m, m/m spanking is hot as hell, but m/m spanking is also a very "bonding" experience, when a guy submits his ass for discipline by another male, allowing him free reign, and feeling a "bond" of "trust" and "mutual interests" grow between you.

A mature man dropping his pants and shorts and going across an older man's lap for a good, hard butt-whacking is truly erotic as all hell, and the "age gap" makes it all the hotter.............

 

I was always fantasising about being spanked by an older lady when I was much younger.
It wasn't until I moved to a city that I made it a reality.
Nowadays it would be a lady of around my own age.

 

There are so many erotic "angles" to men getting spanked, either by women or other men.

Many men fantasize about getting spanked by women old enough to be their mothers or grandmothers.

Others also fantasize about getting spanked by older men, men old enough to be their fathers (or grandfathers).

Then, too, senior men who desire to be spanked by both males and females young enough to be their (legal age) children or grandchildren.

Again, I believe that a sizeable "age gap" between the spanker and the "spankee" makes it all that much hotter and erotic.......

 

Several years back (at least) there used at be a VERY hot spanking discussion forum online, that, sadly, is no more.

This was a forum for men (gay/bi/straight) who were really into getting spanked.

You would have been VERY surprised at how many mature men fantasized about getting spanked by women (as well as men) who were at least in their 80s.

These mature guys would have had no problem in pulling down their pants and shorts and going across the lap of either a woman or a man in their 80's (and even past that) for a good, hard, sizzling, butt-whacking session.

I had a great deal of fun posting on this board, while it was still up.

VERY interesting confessions/experiences revealed, as well......................

 

Guys:

How old was the oldest person (male or female) that has ever had your captive butt over their knees for a hard spanking?

If you're an older ("mature") man in his 60s, would you turn down a good spanking from either a woman or a man who has twenty (or more) years your senior?

I know I've read (as I have previously mentioned) about middle-aged/senior men who get VERY turned on by thought of being spanked hard by either a man or a woman (or both together) who were, at least, 20-30 years their senior.

As I had said earlier, IMHO, a large "age gap" between the spanker and the "spankee" makes it all that much more erotic and "kinky"............................

 

Have you considered getting caned. I know it is more difficult to take but you will really feel the benefits of a caning all day after at work.

 

I agree. A caning is more difficult to take and the person who is doing it to you needs to be a little more careful where it's placed. A cane on testicles or high on a pussy is no fun although it is memorable. A switch is even harder to place well although the sting is pretty good. A lot depends on having done to you what you really don't want but really do.

 

Oldest person: Same age plus or minus ~ 2 years, female

"Older": I don't know anyone into spanking that is 20+ years older than me. I might consider accepting an offer from a woman 20+ years my senior. Depends on her personality.

"Age Gap": might be interesting. Hairbrush, strap, etc.

 

If a man, say, is in his mid-60s, and he's getting spanked by either a woman or another man at least 20 years his senior, again, the "age gap factor" ("AGP") adds a great deal (IMHO) adds a high-voltage jolt to an otherwise hot spanking scenario.............

 

I have never been spanked, but long to be. What you posted here sounds delightfully painful!

 

Sometimes, the anticipation itself is a huge turn-on.

 

The brain is the biggest sex organ.

 

Agreed, 100%!

 

The girl I spank knows this well. She is nervous and gets at least moist if not wet knowing that she's going to get spanked. If we're together for a while before her spanking, she gets quiet and then when we're together in private her nerves will show. By the time her panties come down and she has to go over my knee she's wet. Maybe pleading a little for me to be easy on her or being a little humiliated because of the situation she finds herself in. But we both know what's about to happen and she submits to it. The anticipation is crucial. I've been out to eat with her before a spanking and reminded her of what's in store for her soon. She'll actually squirm when I say that. Just thinking about it.

 

Thx for sharing. I love reading about other people's fantasies. It's a huge turnon. I lovingly patt my wife's pussy and suck her ripples while while she masturbate. Sometimes she pats my balls as I masturbate. We call it spanking. Wd love it.

 

Thx for sharing you turn on. My wife and I have found out that certain words or phrases really turn us on too. One of mine is "mommy" but I NEVER think of my mom. I think of my wife or a very nurturing older female. When she's close to orgasm she likes me saying cock or fuck me. Words can be an awesome turn on.