Is anal sex a good idea?

Funny line I read years ago in an advice book by an academic Sexologist: "Use enough lube. Everywhere. Even the cat."

 

Yup bro quite agree with wat u said above...most wives or ladies n even quite a no. of men do not like anal sex cos of the pain caused at the ladies' anus n hygiene consideration for both partners...but a lot of lady members in here seems to quite enjoy anal sex...well i suppose, to each his/her own...shd be done consensually though

 

Is any kind of sex a good idea?

Depends on what one thinks of as good. Some feel that anything that "feels good" is good.

 

My half sister started having anal sex in her teens to avoid pregnancy, and as long as the guy's dick wasn't too huge, (some were) she really got into it. It became a big part of her ongoing sex life, at least at the time when she and I were talking about such things.

 

Ex wife would cum buckets from anal. Current wife goes crazy when I finger her.. but she has to be drunk. She's still thinning it's wrong when sober. But her orgasms say otherwise. So i keep trying . I have passed out twice from her fingering me and massaging my prostrate. So its great from her..

 

Trust what your body tells you when playing down there. Most of the time, your body is saying "MORE".....

 

No I don't do anal, never felt that it was a 'good' thing and neither do any of my guy friends. One gf has done it but she has never elaborated. I do like to get fingered there sometimes during sex, maybe as much as 1-1/2 inches penetration (baby love has never gone deeper). That is the absolute limit for me.

Great info oldguynurse and wilsjane, thank you.

I would guess that here in North America it's about the same ratio. And they don't get sheepish here, just louder.

 

Anal sex is an aquired thing for sure it’s best done real slow and with lots of lube. But it isn’t for everyone. If done right she will enjoy it immensely if done wrong she won’t enjoy it and won’t want to do it ever again. I’ve been with women that love anal and women that don’t want anything to do with it. And to me as long as I’m sliding my cock into a pussy and we are both cumming that’s all that matters.

 

And that other orifice too right? The one in my avi pic

 

Oh yes definitely that hole as well

 

And during Covid, those fools paid a very heavy price.
By not heeding the advice to isolate, the numbers of he one in a thousand who needed ICU treatment overwhelmed the hospitals. Having taken previous antibiotics made things worse.
The principal problem was triaging the people who needed treatment from the tens of thousands who panicked. In all of this, the government were about as much use as a paper bag in a thunderstorm.
Latest statistics from the World Health Organisation, now put the number of UNNECESSARY covid deaths in the US at 400,000
percentage wise, this is 10 times higher than in the UK.

 

So someone on the forum doesn’t like anal? I need to spread things out between all three holes or one would wear out real fast, LOL

 

Maybe this thread is just titled wrong.... 'good idea' or not? Maybe it's like swallowing a guy's cum, some (like me) love it, do it all the time and some don't like it at all.

 

It’s one of those things that you have to try and see. If done right nice and slow lots of lube and working up to the penetration it can be extremely pleasurable for the woman. Lots and lots of pleasurable nerve endings there. But if done wrong like to fast no lube and being rough can be really painful.

 

It’s really like any type of sex, if rushed, not prepared and scared of it, it will make for a bad party! I think there is a stigma about anal sex and people are scared (girls in particular) to try and they are too tense. I practiced a lot with various girth dildos and lots of lube a d once I learned to relax, which in turn was aided by desire, I had no problems. Up until recently I have never had an injury and I have had no illnesses attributed to frequent anal sex.

 

You somehow hurt yourself with some one? He went the wrong way? Too dry? Too fast? Don't leave us hanging.

 

This explains part of it…if you have more questions, I can PM you the details.

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