When the Opportunity Arises

I would settle for 4" just to test the water. I wouldn't like it if they made a bold claim of 8" and couldn't live up to half of it.

I'm not set on size alone I'm just looking for a nice clean cock to taste.

Being I think I'm around 6" and around average I don't need a huge cock to be my first. It might be a little overwhelming for my first anyways.

I would happily try one that's just my size cause why not and I won't feel like he's packing more than me.

 

I require video chat before meeting. There are a lot of flakes out there, video sorts them out right away. I have a small list of requirements, and not a small number of guys don't bother to meet them. Drinking and drug use is a big no no, and guys high on something called me as if I wouldn't notice. Similarly, lying about anything will get you ignored right away. There's no reason to lie about anything at all so dishonesty is a red flag.

There are a lot of hard cocks out there, no point in taking chances with someone who can't be bothered to be honest.

 

Yes, the old "I have a big cock!" lie. Since cock size has never mattered to me, sure, I'll call him on it but if he was okay otherwise, it's time to get to work on each other. The problem with the ways you can hook up with a guy is that a lot of it can be done anonymously and sight unseen; pics that aren't pics of them, stuff like that but the guys who are for real are the ones who show up at the meet even though their little white lies are going to get exposed. The thought is that if a guy will lie about the size of his dick, what else would he lie about? Well, that's why you try to find out what else might not be true - and what will really present a problem like he might not be as healthy as he said he is.

End of the day, it's all about what's acceptable to you. A little white lie about the size of his cock? I can overlook that because it's a lie I've heard way too many times in my life and if he doesn't have a big cock, it doesn't matter. I guess it can beg the question of which thing carries the most importance and in a time when trying to find a suitable guy is becoming even more difficult: Him lying about his "big cock" or his age or... here's an opportunity to get your freak on with a guy? Like, my protege doesn't have a hard time finding guys where he lives so he can be - and is - extremely picky and to the extent where the usual little white lie - that big cock - will make him send the guy packing. But then, he'll complain to me about the LWL while saying that everything else about the guy was okay - and he has no answer to my question of, "So why didn't you do him?"

He's slowly learning not to let opportunities pass him by even when he lives in a target rich environment...

 

I have always been very selective....chatting, meeting, etc to get a feel about the person. Usually said they were married and had to work around schedules in order to meet.....until last year when I agreed to meet a man in Orlando who could not host due to family. We met at a bar on Edgewater, had a few drinks, and then went to a back patio area. There were around two dozen men out there and it became a sensory overload seeing men sucking other men right there in the open. The person I met walked me back to an open chair, took my clothes off, sat me down, and stepped in front of me so I could start sucking. Other men were very close by and were watching and talking. I became so aroused and into the moment that I sucked him and then two others. First time I ever did anything like that. Another person was sitting right beside me sucking a man's dick and would occasionally reach over and lightly squeeze mine while others would reach over and hold it, too. There were seven people around me all within touching distance. This was the most erotic experience ever......but also made me quite nervous about the two other men who I sucked just because they asked me to....