I’m new to all of this

You’ve got me wondering now

 

I’m a Midwest girl

 

Yeah. Like I said/wrote last week, I'm near Philly. Too bad.

 

I'm considered midwest - KY. Not many here on this forum.

 

Welcome to Hip Forums! I'm not in the midwest, but have had very similar interests for a long time. I wonder if you can give as good as you get - seeing that you haven't actually been spanked. My introduction to spanking was a lady I dated for the first time. It turned out that the date was on her birthday and she was expecting a through bottom warming. That was a shock. Over the years I gradually learned to like both giving and receiving quite thorough bare bottom spankings.

 

When I wrote “give as good as I get” I was referring to the foreplay and sex. Because as you stated I have never gotten a spanking. I also had never given much thought to being the spanker. Now you have given me even more to consider

 

In my experience, approaching something like this slowly is the best approach. The fantasies are usually great, reality is more complicated. It took me a long time to get used to the idea of being spanked - and longer to really like it. At this point it is a habit. Fortunately, I do not drink, smoke, do drugs, gamble or break the speed limit.

 

Best of Luck to You

 

I'm giving one this afternoon and I'll let you know how it goes.

 

I am the same as you except I am a man. Took me a long time to convince my wife that I needed to feel the sting of the wooden paddle.. She does it for me now not because she likes it but because she loves me.

 

An occasional bare bottom spanking can improve one's mood and energy level.

 

Noting wrong with giving and receiving. Just like sex!

 

Newbie here, you might consider being the spanker. My wife is my spanker and is slowly growing into the role of spanker. She says she will never be the spankee and I respect that wish completely. Lots of articles on the net you could read up and help you to make your own decision about becoming a spanker for your hubby.

 

I have no desire to be a spanker and my husband has no desire for any kind of personal relationship with me. But thanks for the suggestion

 

Very sorry to hear that hubby is not interested that is indeed a tough situation for you.

 

Newbie here welcome to Midwest love to chat

 

I’m in the Midwest as well, Illinois

 

My wife and I would switch, however I was more into receiving than she was so it worked out pretty good

 

My wife is my spanker. Just finished a good spanking about one hour ago she zip lock my hands and stands me against the wall. She starts with black leather paddle then switches to the wooden paddle scolding me with each swat of the paddle. Thing is a first for me she never tied my hands before I didn’t know where it was going but afterwards she finished she cut the zip lock off.

 

Didn’t know if I would like it my hands being tired but afterwards I kind liked it. I am thinking next time she could put some duct tape over my mouth. Not sure she would go for that.