Mutual pleasure while relaxing. Do other couples do it?

My wife and I are a senior couple. We have a incredible sex life together. We have nothing to hide from each other. It is very common that we will be sitting, watching the TV and keep a vibrator near by. My wife will pleasure herself and do a clitoris message. She finds this both stimulating and relaxing.
I in turn will use a small vibrator to keep the blood flowing to my cock. Sometimes she get her orgasm, as well as me. But that is not the goal. We find this to be erotic. Most of the time, we are primed for sex later.
Do any others do this for relaxation only with a friend or spouse?

 

My wife usually masturbates at night to help her go to sleep. I usually masturbate in the morning if I wake earlier than planned. Just helps me ease into the day. Thankfully my wife and I don't have hangups about each other taking care of our business solo. Neither one of us are straight either so we both are free to just openly indulge in whatever floats our boats. We oftentimes lie in bed together, her doing her own thing, me doing mine. It is a huge turn on for us and just as satisfying as if we pleasured each other.

 

Good for you. That exactly what we do. We find it very natural and healthy and as you said no hang ups. However, we do have amazing sex together as well.

 

Can't understand why some people have to hide their masturbation from their spouses.

 

If you can’t have fun with your wife, then who can you have fun with. Just saying!

 

My wife will start by getting her toys out. And start getting her pussy wet and ready for me. I will start with the blue pill and start masturbating to getting it primed. I will then take over with the vibrator and start fucking her with it. I got her a new toy that uses suction and can get her off right away. By far the best toy. Can suck the man in the boat while I’m in her. I get her off a few times and then she will say just worry about yourself. Sometimes her pussy is so wet I’ll try to run some fingers in there but can’t. I’ll pull out and jack off on her pussy lips or I like to straddle her and lay some cum on her chest and tits.

 

never done it. maybe selfish but if in the mood for play, it was about giving to her, she giving me.

 

My wife will usually exercise in the afternoon and afterwards say “i’m getting a shower, do you want to come watch?” I know that means “do you want to get off together”. I usually go in and shes already in the shower. I will strip down and stroke my cock while she washes herself. She will take peeks at me but for the most part acts as if im not there. I love watching her shave and she knows it. She’ll shave her thick legs and then her pussy. She ALWAYS turns and faces me so i can get a good view. Then she’ll wash off and open the shower door and motion for me to come closer. We will face each other and masturbate. After a min she will grab her vibrator and turn and bend over showing me her ass and puffy swollen pussy. I will shoot my load all over her big ass and she cums. Then ill wipe the cum from her back and clean up and we’ll kiss deeply and gonto bed. Its awesome!

 

We've been married 52 years and the last 32 she has no desire for sex and that's all I think about, we can be watching TV and I'll be rubbing my Boner and she'll look straight at the TV, and keep her tent night gown tucked in all the way to her ankles!!! It drives me crazy, so I spend as much time away from her as I can, I still open doors for her and she still wants to hold hands while we're walking! I can't figure her out

 

We do mutual all the time.

 

We often mastubate together and some times if she is tired and I'm horny watching TV I will pop my cock out and wank Infront of her

 

I'm not very experienced in sex but I love to masterbate. I've been wanting to bring this idea up to my partner but im afraid he will think im weird or something.

 

We often watch a movie or tv sitting naked on the couch. She puts her hand on or around my cock, I have an arm around her and a hand on a breast. Sometimes it leads to sex, other times it does not. The advantage of being 60+. Things go as they go. Just enjoy it.

 

Open real communication is key! Talk to him!

 

A former friend and I used to get together at her place to watch a ball game. She would suck my cock a little from time to time. We used to call it "suckling". Not a full blown blow job. Just having it out and playing with it. Licking the head. Sucking it a little hard then letting it go soft again while playing with my balls or just running her fingers on it. Then back in her mouth for some suckling. I would have my hand down her blouse or usually I'd have the shirt up and the bra off for nipple play. I'd have her pants undone and my fingers in her pussy a little. The finish was usually the seventh inning. Either we'd masturbate together or she'd finish the blowjob in her mouth and I'd strip her the rest of the way of finger and oral her over the edge. It was a LONG and slow relaxation and we used to do it fairly often. Never even really talked about it. We just did it. We were very comfortable with each other.

 

Love long foreplay! It hits the home run!!

 

I like to go down on my boyfriend while he’s watching TV and relaxing on the couch.