What Nubbin wrote applies to me too to a large extent, but now that we've been in touch it's not an abstract question and the answer then is yes.
True enough, but essentially, some might be intimidated by hearing about your adventures. When I was in High School, (back in the stone age) I used to feel quite intimidated by the really hot girls. At my 10 year reunion, I found out that one of the really hot ones I used to have a crush on, actually crushed on me, because I ode a motorcycle to school, but she didn't approach me because she thought I'd reject her. It's irrational, but We are human and Irrational is what we are by nature. .
True about hearing about the adventures possibly being intimidating, but also many of the guys on this forum have conversed with me so you know I can also talk casually with people. I think in real life that I am not a snob. I feel you guys really helped me to wake up this dormant volcano and just trying to (hypothetically speaking) give back a little to my online friends? I would not expect anyone to jump into a gangbang. If anything were to happen, would think would likely be one on one first.
Jenna while sex if certainly an important part of our lives there is definitely more to life. I would like to think it’s far better to be kind to people than hard to get along with.
Most likely ... I've given you a hint of what I might like to try if you ever came out my way. My tastes are varied, and like so many others I like the intimacy of one on one contact. You will always find a few that are intimidated though. I've noted that a lot of American, have been conditioned by our movies and tv to be somewhat in awe of sexually promiscuous scandinavian women. Personally, I'm more intimidated by angry old ladies with rabid chihuahuas that walk thim off of their leashes on sundays
OK, so if I saw/heard a woman and I thought she might be Jenna from HipForums, I would totally approach. If, in person, you're anything like the idea I have of you from what you share here and from our interactions on this site, I would totally want to engage with you physically. You're a rare gem, and it would be a once-in-a-lifetime kind of thrill.
I think it's essential to recognize that in the sexual ecosystem, 'the slut,' (using the term in this context as a high compliment), i.e. someone like Jenna is an essential component, and highly valued! Having such high value, I would definitely approach and interact, and attempt to learn as much as possible about this truly fascinating creature!! Her extensive sports background, how that affected her outlook on athletic endeavours in all aspects of her life, and other such matters, for sure...
During Japan's Edo period, we saw the rise of ranks of female entertainers. The most talked about today are Geisha (or more properly Geiko) which er high level entertainers, and NOT prostitutes. The Maiko were apprentices, learning how to become Geiko, learning to play music, dance, game, other art forms, as well as Tea Ceremony. However, in the red light districts of Yoshiwara, you could find women that could be mistaken for Geiko, by their dress, known as Oiran. (Courtesans) They were considered the highest-ranking courtesans in Japanese history, who were considered to be above common prostitutes. But above the common Oiran, were the Tayu. These women were highly sought out, but had the luxury of choosing who they entertained. It didn't matter how much money you had, if the Tayu refused you, then you would never be in her company. Seems odd, right? being interviewed by a prostitute, to see if you met "Her" standards?
I have a couple answers. 1. If I knew you were the Jenna I've talked to, and you felt you had no STI symptoms, I absolutely would enjoy fucking you to exhaustion, bare without a condom, cumming in you, to see if I could outlast your sexual energy! And enjoy as bested me to exhaustion! If you had any concerns, I'd still fuck you with a condom on to not miss out! I'd enjoy trying sex play most other women wouldn't want to try or physically unable to try, but you could. The shitty thing from a male perspective, is I'd almost enjoy talking with you as much as fucking you! I did say almost I might not enjoy the moment as freely as I'd want to, thinking of trying to figure out longer term connections, vs just enjoy the moment for what is? Maybe you could act like a ditzy blonde so I'd just use you for your body for sex? LoL! 2. If I did not know you before, & just met you - Because you're attractive, athletic, eager and open about sex: A. I'd be concerned to check you weren't drunk, high, bi-polar, or emotionally distraught. After talking with you, checking your eyes & breathe & quickly realizing you were mentally and physically well, lively and smart then ... B. I'd initially think I was being picked up by a high class escort first? And then shit, can I afford you? Or being conned to be beaten and robbed at the hotel room or apartment you'd lead me to. Because while I'm not ugly, and am decent looking, I know I'm not the the attractive kind of guy that women just throw themselves at either. Unless they are super into broad shoulders on guys? C. After conversation with you, learning you're Scandinavian, and knowing European women aren't as sexually repressed as American women are, I'd relax and lower my guard realizing you were smart, mentally fit and fuck you with a condom. It would take more talking to fuck you without a condom, to feel comfortable you took care of your sexual health. And also weren't trying to do a one night stand hit -and-run just to get pregnant with a baby? It's the classic Madonna/Whore complex some men have with women. Promiscuous sex has historically been frowned on & stigmatized due to the societal burden on fatherless children and their single mothers both during and post pregnancy. Men never were shamed for being absent fathers to the extent women were. I've been guilty of being sexually more assertive with women I dated I felt weren't as smart or attractive. Yet I was too deferential to women who were smart & attractive. Putting them on a pedestal, not making moves like I wanted to? By the time I felt comfortable to make a sexual move, I would have been seen as aloof, or not sexually interested and friend zoned because I was nice to them, instead of continually, aggressively pursuing sex? I think some men are just plain intimidated & scared by an attractive, smart woman who is totally uninhibited when it comes to having sex?
