Spanker here but I've been spanked as well. Love seeing it, doing it and talking about it. I have a friend who gets some discipline from me from time to time. She loves hand spanking although she's take a crop spanking from me as well. Hates it but loves it on the thighs and lips too. Sometimes tits but definitely a hand slapped ass.
Love being spanked. The wife spanks me when I need it,, she wants no part of being the spankee which is fine with me.
My wife is only the Spanker she says if I ever spank her she will never spank me again and she always follows through with what she says. I love getting my ass spanked nice and red so I will continue to be the spankee.
hello Kelly... I am a spanker, and have been into spanking since I first witnessed a very pretty girl when I was growing up in my neighborhood, several years older than me getting a bare bottom spanking over her mom's lap. In fact she was my 'first secret crush and I thought she was an absolute goddess. To see her super cute bare bum was just amazing.. but to see it be spanked was just out of this world thrilling and crazy! Her name was Kelly (not kidding!!) I guess I've thought about spanking most every girl's cute bare bum ever since! LOL would love to chat.. and spank!
was she the first woman to spank you and how old were you? ahd she always spanked her boyfriends or were you the first?
Lol I was in my 40s, she was my my second wife (unfortunately she passed away). When we were dating we played with light BDSM and we would switch. After we got married, and I was in a stressful job with long hours, we evolved into more of a femdom relationship. It was not 24/7 but on the weekends she would definitely be in charge, set the schedule and the rules. I was her first.
My second wife was the one to spank me as an adult. It was during an affair and the affair started all because of the threat, "Do you want me to pull your pants down and spank you like a little boy?"