I got my butt beat today with a hairbrush then the belt and then a long full force hand spanking it was about 3 hours ago and my ass is still on fire.
I deserved every smack and more but because it was my first I got the rest this morning all with the brush 40 yesterday and 100 today.
Nice, she must be in charge to spank you like that. My ass turns red and it is hard to sit on after I get a hard spanking. My wife is in charge and she keeps it that way. I have learned what being a sub is all about. It all started when she caught me wearing her panties. She keeps me in them all the time now. I have also learned to help out with a lot of the housework chores.
In the attachment, the guy is getting it from one, while two others wait their turn. Poor guy, he will have trouble sitting down for a week after they all get their turn.
My wife likes her pussy spanked but only as the ultimate punishment. She normally gets her bottom spanked but if the punishment merits it she gets her pussy spanked. She says it’s the most intense and most humiliating.
My wife makes the rules in our house. If I misbehave or forget one of my chores, it's over her knees for a bare ass spanking. She prefers her wooden paddle but sometimes uses a leather strap. My butt is red and tender for days.
Very creative. He gets a couple of minutes of pleasure, then an extended session of discipline and pain.
A real spanking is strict, demanding, only starts after you really want it end, and takes quite a while to get used to. I recently agreed to receive a "real" spanking from my ladyfriend. After anticipating it for almost two weeks it happened. Hairbrush and strap. Quite an experience. I expect that we will do that again.
If you haven't done it already, I would suggest sitting down with him without any distractions and explain to him how important it is to you for him to spank you. Tell him that you understand that he doesn't want to hurt you, but being spanked is something that you enjoy (but only if you've been spanked before.) Have him "practice"on you - one spank at a time. Then ask him to repeat it and talk about what it was like for him and you. See if that works.
I can not imagine anything more toe-curling embarrassing for a grown man (an alpha male at that!) than to be spanked on his bare bottom over the knee of a lovely female spanker who is not a romantic partner.. perhaps being cornered somehow into submitting to a spanking from his EX-grilfriend or EX-wife (who really have incentive to lay it on), or female boss, or married neighbor... and in all cases to be spanked IN FRONT OF those women's very attractive and very shocked - but increasingly snickering, giggling and approving - girlfriends!!! YIKES!!! (where do I sign up???)
This is my fantasy too. I am dreaming about a strict man, who would put me in my place. I am pretty naughty girl, and that's why I deserve to be spanked untill my bottom is sore, red and very hot. This is one of my favorite fantasies: My strict disciplinarian is sitting on the couch. He is waiting for me to come home from a girl's night out. I am late, I refused his calls, and it's long past curfew. Ofc, he is angry with me. He pulled out the punishing implements. Tonight I am going to get what I deserved. I had few drinks, although I am not allowed to. I am entering the house. Light is off. He is turning on the night lamp. I am wearing very inappropriate dress. I wanted him to be angry even more, so I didn't put my panties. He is angry but is speaking to me in the cold and firm manner. He is telling me what is going to happen to me. I have to take off my dress. He explodes when he see that I don't wear bra nor panties. He is pulling over his knees and starts spanking me loudly and very, very hard. I am squirming but he blocked my legs : "You will remember this evening" I hear his firm tone. "This will teach you not to act like a slut. And, your punishment has just began." Then, he continues to spank me even harder, alternating cheeks. After about hundred swats, I have to stand up, stand straight and put my hands on my had. Then he starts to slap my tits. He slaps right and then left, about thirty times. I start crying, but he doesn't care. He is determined to punish me to remember it, so I wouldn't repeat such a stupidity. When he is finished with my breasts, I have to bend over the couch. He reaches for the thin plastic spoon. I get twelve fast and hard swats on each cheek. "Go, lie on the couch and spread your legs". I am crying and begging him not to do it, but he is not even close to finish with me. He is spanking my inner thighs, clit and puss lips with riding crop. "25 swats for learning a lesson should be enough, for now". He tells me to go to the corner, but I am not allowed to rub my sore butt. After 15 minutes, he is ready to continue. I am on my stomach, on a bunch of pillows, bottom up for his belt. He is whipping me hard with the belt. I am tired, my bottom is wounded, it hurts. I can't hold my position, so I just earned extra's. He is putting his belt down, and taking a cane. Six of the best, very very hard, plus two extra for not holding position when he was belting me. Then he is done. He is not helping me, I have to get off the bed alone. I am sent to corner, for half an hour. When corner time is over, he is sending me in the guest room to sleep. I don't have right to take anything but one pillow and one blanket. That room is empty, and he is using it as a cell for me, when we are in my discipline process. I am sent to cell room completely naked. I am not allowed to do anything but about my mistakes. In the morning I am told that he's arranged everything with my boss, and that I am working from home. In all that time, I am not allowed to wear any clothes, not even panties. Also, I am not at to leave the house, nor my cell. He will bring me food and water. Also, I will be punished daily. Every morning and every evening he will thoroughly inspect my body before spanking. During my punishment time, I am not allowed to touch him. On Sunday night, after my punishment is finished, I will be allowed to get on my knees and thank him orally for all he is doing for me.