Do most men hate receiving handjobs?

If there is alittle instruction...then it's great

 

No man actually dislikes a hand job. But many of them prefer blow jobs. So I think that their "hate" is a cheap trick to get the blow job.

My penis needs a little special treatment as most penes. So I simply take the woman's hand and demonstrate her shortly. No one has refused this yet, in opposite they are thanksful. So then she knows, and another option is to be teased a little at the beginning, if I am sure that she knows the optimum technique finally. An additional thrill.

I think the secret of a good hand job is that the strange hand is not at 100%, but only at 95% technical level. And this is the kick. The only 95% lead me up to a higher level of body tightening - awaiting, longing for the final big sensation. Whole body stretched. And then finally - aaaah, she has managed it. Orgasm quality 105% compared to the self produced.

 

My first sexual encounter was having that with a friend, doing each other. It was exploration and it stirred that desire in me. I always liked the idea but neither my first nor current wives liked it, or bothered to be shown how to do it right. Now retired, years ago I did it with one or two male friends. It was as much fun as my first exploration. That was years ago. I miss it.

 

I use to love His when I was younger , but I can't cum from it unless the person really knows what their doing and how to do it. Plus I don't; shoot anymore so not as epic when I cum.

 

I love and appreciate a good handjob. That being said, the person has to know how to do it correctly. If done wrong it can be painful and result in lots of irritation from stroking that's too aggressive or too tight of a grip. I once got a handjob from a woman that treated my cock like it was a rubber band. She just kept pulling and stretching it until I told her to stop. She couldn't fathom the fact that a penis and testicles can be very sensitive and susceptible to pain!!!

 

Growing up my best friend and I from 5 to 18 were practically inseparable and enjoyed our daily hand jobs! Oral was ok but not enough anal was the same and did not try it until we were 16 Hand jobs were the best!

 

I got countless hj's from my boyfriends and girlfriends starting at 9, but the best ending was a bj.

 

i mean im sure thed prefer it somewhere else but ive never been turned down.

 

Anything to do with my tdick I LOVE

 

FACTS!!

 

It's been a while since I've really gotten a full handjob, usually I just go for the bj... The last time I asked her to stroke it a bit first while I was perched over her, she did this backhand kind of grip...and I must admit, it felt really good - I'd almost gotten carried away with it, but luckily I got back to the original business and the result was great...a bit too quick though, but one can't be greedy, right?

 

It depends, of course, on the enthusiasm of the person giving it. If its mechanical with no talking or encouragement from the giver then yeah ill just try and do it myself. But when i get one i want it to be like a massage. Someone to really be into what they are doing. A man wants his women to worship his cock. To stare at it and study every part. Talk to him. “Your cock gets so hard for me”. “Are you going to cum for me?”
“ i want you to lay back and relax and enjoy this, dont think about anything but me and what im doing to you. You just cum whenever you want. Don’t tell me, i want it to be a surprise. Don’t worry about where it goes or makibg a mess, im going to clean it all up. I want you to cum harder than you ever have”. Tease him maybe too. “You want to cum on me? On my tits? How bout i open my mouth wide and you can jerk off into my mouth “. “You want to watch porn and ill jerk you off while you watch?

 

Wow. Do women like that really exist? If my wife talked like that I wouldn't last long. You really hit the nail on the head. Not very women(or wives) understand this concept.

 

Usually that's about the point where I wake up from that dream...

 

I think its several things….#1 they are wives and mothers now, they have been program that you act a certain way when they are married
#2 alot of women dont know that it’s ok to enjoy sex and have fun with their husbands. They look as sex as a means to an end ie Marraige and a family.
#3 they think therir hisband will view them differently. They don’t understand men and we don’t understand them. They don’t understand that their husband wants them to be a slut FOR HIM and him alone. They want them to be june Cleaver during the day and their favorite porn star at night. If they were that they would be AMAZED at how good things were at home. At how accommodating their husbands were. A man is a walking hormone for most of his life. His DNA drives him to procreate. Its a physical need and also a emotional need at the same time. A man wants to be physically wanted by his woman. He wants to know she needs his cock as much as he needs her pussy. Ive been with my woman for over 20 years. Im in above avergae shape for my age and a decent looking dude. I could get laid anytime i wanted but thats not what i want. I WANT MY WOMAN. Why doesn’t she understand that????

 

Well said.

 

That, my friend, is a question for the ages.....it's kind of like asking what do women really want??

 

I had a handful of women (pun intended) who enjoyed it, one fwb in particular and one I used to see for nothing but handjobs, always edging with several orgasms that had me leaking lots of precum

 

I love a good handjob! Both men and women can give great ones but it takes good communication to make it superb.

My right knee has nerve damage so I cannot be on top when fucking, it has to be from the side or her on top. A lot of times I will bring my partner to orgasm several times with my fingers and she will return the favor. We have gotten really good at communicating what feels good and what we want.

She always uses lube after initial playing with my cock. One of my favorite sensations is three hands stroking my cock, both of hers and one of mine. It's a highly erotic experience.

 

Handjob is good... I like if wife doing it for me. Lots of oil and a finger in my rectum

 

My wife gives me handjobs regularly, probably 2-3 times/week. It's really nice, takes a lot longer to cum than when I masturbate, but feels much better, her soft hands, the occasional kiss/lick.
Handjobs are definitely the most common sexual activity between us. I often finger her while she jerks me, every now and then it turns into mutual oral(which I much prefer), but it's still really nice when it doesn't.