My wife and I have been going to nude beaches in four different countries for 19 years. Never have we seen an erection. Granted, these were all family friendly beaches and resorts, so the sexual tension wasn't there.
Clothing optional / nude beaches are not just for nudists. Nudists in the type who expressly wish to completely separate nudity and sex that is. Sorry, it cannot be done. Seeing a man with an erection when nude, on a beach or elsewhere, isn't all that a common occurrence. But it does occur. The only problem is when someone makes an issue of it.
I got one before when at a nude beach and just tried to stay in the water. I don't think people were really bothered, I seen one couple laughing actually lol
i think its cute when guys get hard over me, and im sure i wouldnt judge. id be turned on to you just couldnt tell
I used to stay in the water or move my legs to hide it. I was very self conscious about it especially with my ex’s sister who loved staring at my bulge but I came to think, let her see and make her eyes happy after a while
At most nude beaches/resorts it’s considered poor etiquette to have a hard dick on display. You are to cover w a towel or turn over or go for a swim. It all has to do with the false notion that there is nothing sexual about nudity. This falsehood gets sexually conservative wives to unveil their tits and pussy to a lot of men. That lie worked for my wife….lol. Before our first nude beach, I was the only one to ever see her goodies. I ’m sure it also helps politically with getting permits. the idea of nudity not having a sexual component is absurd. I think most of us at a nude beach/resort/club have some degree of exhibitionism and or voyeurism. I visited a club once that viewed boners as a natural thing. It was nice to allow an erection to take place in public view. It was in response to seeing a beautiful woman whose bald pussy was on full display with her legs apart. I get tired of nude gals who keep their legs glued together. I hope attitudes change so erections aren’t considered rude or threatening
my self why does it matter, you se one you seen them all. same for boobs some bigger and some smaller
My wife and I frequently go to a clothing optional hot spring close by and every once in a while I get an erection. I get a lot of frowns until they realize I'm with my wife. I remember one time when I went alone and accidentally saw a woman syntribating. It got me so hard within seconds and she saw it too. She got pissed and stormed off, but couldn't stop watching me the rest of the day when I walked past her.
LOL not trivializing but it’s inevitable, human nature even if a man doesn’t look at getting himself an erection
I agree. It can happen, and I have seen it happen at resorts-and people generally will be tactful and understanding.
As a nudist, I would love to be sporting an erection on the beach. One of my sexual bucket list things is to have a raging hard on while my wife and I walk nude along the shoreline. I don’t think that a man needs to hide it if he doesn’t want to, it’s a natural body function, just like when a woman’s nipples are erect. Why discourage someone to feel good and aroused?
An erection is not always from sexual arousal. Especially in kids and teens non-sexual excitement is common. We Americans make everything into a sexual sin. And the massive difference in perception between the sexes of male and female. I have seen many women become aroused with flushed skin, hard erected nipples, enlarged vaginal lips and some clitorises almost sticking out like a penis. Hardly anyone notices, yet if a male gets even slightly chubby aroused, they are called out and viewed as a pervert! I am NOT a sexist but feel we have a long way to treat male and female equal. I have said it a million times, I grew up nudist by a very open-minded mom. Erections were very common, and I bet half of them were completely nonsexual. Mom treated them all as fully natural and normal. I never felt the need to hide it in any way. BUT going to a nude beach or resort I was told it at a certain age and not before became instantly inappropriate and vulgar! I remember asking the "why" question a million times. Mom had the right answer in a million ways. Personally, if I saw a boy with an erection I would say "boys will be boys" if I saw a man I would say "nice" It's simply a sign you feel great in some way just like a smile! Let's stop hiding our smiles!
When I lived in San Diego (for 20 years) I frequently went to Blacks Beach. I walked the length of the beach several times during my visits both for exercise and to check out the other nudists. I usually wasn't flaccid, but didn't have an erection just a semi. There were times I would see a hot female with her legs spread or a couple having sex I couldn't stop getting an erection. I often noticed females and couples checking me out. One time I saw a guy taking photos of his very hot wife and I got very erect while watching. She wanted me to pose with her, of course erect. I miss those days, nothing like Blacks Beach in Chicago.
Seeing erect cocks in the wild wouldn’t bother me at all. I’ve always wanted something naturally to happen when at the beach and being able to see who also may be interested would be a huge turn on
To be able to sport an erection in a nude social setting is an amazingly freeing experience! When we’re teens, we’re taught to be embarrassed by those around us knowing we have an erection. This is a horrible association to be forced on us over a very natural thing. My experience at a club that permitted erections was that I could truly be myself without ridicule or people being offended.