I'm not really. I'm good at negotiating and making myself clear, but if it comes to my personal life this is a bit of a problem. I find it really hard to just say 'no' if I don't want to.
i also tend to be very passive aggressive at times. i don't mean to be, but when someone behaves in a way that to me seems something natural NOT to do (playing music so loud it wakes me up), i usually find it easy to speak my mind. i think it all comes down to the fact that i hate confrontation! i am also very laid back about a lot of things, so often even when i am not trying to be "indecisive" i often come off that way. but my shrink did tell me i have to work on the passive aggessive stuff.