I started masturbating when I was around 12. I randomly got curious about it and started trying it. I now masturbate most mornings or in the shower. (Rubbing or vibrator or shower head) I'm in my 20s now
Fantasy and imagination are normal brain functions during masturbation, actually, masturbation without fantasizing is a physical stimulation and could be pleasureless, but the power that increases your high pleasure is visualizing while stimulating your vagina or cock. I almost made love with some stranger that I like to have sex with her. She could be my neighbor, friend's wife, relative, or anybody whom I can have sex with in reality. That's why many people like to masturbate as well as regular sex. In regular sex, you engage with one person who is your partner, but while masturbating there is no limitation for fucking, you can fuck whatever you like. The combination of mental and physical stimulation, during masturbating gives you plenty of pleasure which is not limited to just focusing on one person.
Past lovers/wife shared their masturbation with me. LOVED IT! Current wife says she has NEVER done the deed. Damn religious mother. To the point that when I’d guide my wife’s hand down below she’d pull her hand away. If MIL only knew the things her precious daughter has done!
Would it surprise you that her mother was hiding too what she enjoyed? Many people hide their real selves or secrets behind their religion.
f22 here, i masturbate alllll the time! i have regular sex with a ‘FWB’ but honestly there’s nothing better than a nice long edging session involving my toys and porn. the first time i masturbated, i was around 12/13 and stumbled across a porn video of pussy eating and i remember watching it and being sooo turned on so i started looking at the ‘solo’ category to copy how they were doing it.
Yeah…I am Bi…so I watch both gay and straight porn…my favorite form of masturbation is edging for a few hours. Depending upon my mood, I’ll finish with a gay porn or straight porn video…love POV videos watching as I’m inside a woman or a guy is inside me
I am really glad to see the numerous responses from females. Us guys are always curious about what ladies do behind closed doors. What I'm curious about is why don't more females post questions/discussions in this masturbation thread? It's just us dudes asking all of the questions. You are obviously out there, but a little quiet. Again, thanks to the ladies for their participation.
trust me, if any woman ever tells you she doesnt masturbate she is a lyer or has a scary amount of self control. even then its just toturing yourself for no reason. i think most do it atleast once a day
either your wife is lieing or her mother was the scariest thing on earth. i dont think i physically could lol
And then that goes to my point. On this forum, guys are always talking about masturbation, asking others about masturbation, wondering what techniques people use, how often, and on and on. Aren't women curious about what other women are up to?
Yes, I touch myself and, eyes closed, imagine someone I either know by mild acquaintance, or someone I know well, or a celebrity I'm attracted to...picturing them in my mind and how they would be touching and kissing me (sucking my tongue, me sucking theirs), changing pace of strokes as the projections in my mind's eye flow organically.
I don’t think she’s fibbing. She was brought up in a VERY religious home…..sex wasn’t talked about. I’ve only known one other woman that said she didn’t and she was my best friend during my jr and sr years in college. We hung out together a lot, either in our click or one on one. Thanks eventually evolved to a more physical relationship, eventually getting her topless and a ton of kissing. One night in her apartment she naked and all I had on was a pair of shorts. More kissing, my mouth on her beautiful body, and eventually I went down on her. OMG she was loving it, and shook like crazy when she had her first EVER orgasm! Once she settled down she told me it was her first. I asked if she had masturbated and she said no. Her parents RIP were pretty anti sexual. She was still a virgin. Then she asked me to do it again. Over the coming months we did that a lot, even spending many nights together. She couldn’t seem to get enough orgasms. I was falling in love with her, and I felt she was falling for me. But I never pushed for her virginity. I had only been with one woman previously…..she was a virgin….and honestly I wasn’t very good at PIV sex. Guess I didn’t want to embarrass myself. Then the game changer. After graduation I took a job in town, and we spent a lot of time together. After only one month, my employer filed for bankruptcy, and I was let go. I searched high and low for a job in town, but no luck. I received a job offer from 1000 miles away. It was too good to pass up. So we had one last evening together, and we were both crying when I got in my car, loaded with my meager earthly possessions, and set out in the middle of the night for my 18 Hour drive. A miserable night. See you later told me that if I had asked, she wanted to give me her virginity. Well crap! I later talked to her older sister, and she said if I had been able to stay in town, we’d still be together. We still text and send each other birthday and Christmas cards these 40 years later. She’s married with two adult kids. My ex-wife and I went to her wedding. And I had the Dollar dance with her. It was a slow song and all of those memories came flooding back as I held her. my ex even commented on how we seemed to be into each other. i’m sorry as I didn’t mean to hijack this thread. As in insomniac, my mind seems to wander in the wee hours of the morning. Forgive me!
I do it however many times a day it takes to get rid of the need. It can be two up to about 8 depending on whether something has really turned me on. One girl I knew 35yrs ago once said to me that only 5% of women masturbate and the other 95% are liars - her way of telling me she does it and is open about it. Porn doesn't really work for me any more, since I connected with a particular woman online. She suggested that mutual watching of each other would increase our arousal and make our orgasms more intense. That worked for us both for a few months because we both learned a lot about each others bodies, our arousal and our methods/activities. After a couple of months, she went quiet so I expect she moved on to someone else. So I'm hoping to find another equally open-minded woman.
I started when I was 11. I had my first orgasm when I 12. When I was younger I masturbated 4 or 5 times a day. Took me 5 to 19 min to cum. Now at 21 I masturbate 1 or 2 times a day. I like to take longer like 20 min yo an hour or more then my orgasm or orgasms are much stronger.I like to use fingers, vibrator and shower head.
My half sister spoke candidly about her sex life with me her long lost big half brother, but one thing she was adamant about, she never masturbated. Yeah, right, says I. She was staying with us for a while, and her bedroom door was ajar. I very indescretely opened the door, to call her to dinner, and there she was working her clit. Oops. Sorry. Ha! Caught you out. I do, and I did back then, given all the stories she told me about her exploits.