Anyone ever watched their wife of g/f with another guy?

You are living a cuckold's dream my friend. Locked in chastity, eating other men's cum from your wife, having your wife compare your "tiny" cock to other guys'much bigger dicks. You've even mentioned feeling "humiliated", which in my opinion is a huge part of the allure of being a cuckold in the first place.
It's nice to see there's another happy cuckold here, and I'd be happy to exchange messages and experiences with you if you're interested

 

In the time leading up to swap, were you and your wife aware of the guy being well hung? And did this have any influence on the swap?
I know my womans first time with another man was with a well endowed man. Set up by her girl friends. Kind of an initiation, for the new girl to get the guy with the big dick.

 

And I don't blame you there. If it was going to go on with or without you I would think it would be preferable to at least be included in the scene, if nothing else just to be there to watch the scene and enjoy it as her husband, and maybe even have a little party where you and her boss become friends and compare notes on her, and the next obvious step would be to both of you share her together for a threeway she'd never forget.

 

My threesome college buddy from eons ago is staying with us for a couple of days. All I can think about! When she greeted him with a hug and peck all I could think about was sharing her with him again. Difficult to hide my erection. It won’t happen, but I’d love to send her to him in the guest bedroom and her seduce him. It wouldn’t take much as he is in a sexless marriage, and those memories of them having sex….more like making love. They were amazing! Would love to watch them together again. I notice their glances……are they both wanting it again? I’m sure he does. Maybe? Two more nights he’s here. Please god!

 

Kind of like a former co worker of mine's live in gf of 8 years, a cute little blond who went out after the bar closed with one of the band guys and her friends left her to his taking her out and giving her his big one.

 

Yes, and that first time, I wanted to commit murder because she was enjoying him - but that was the whole point. When we talked about it, I was sure that I could handle it... and I couldn't but I got a quick grip on myself and, besides, I had his wife to attend to. We both agreed that watching our spouses with someone else was hard but exciting.

 

KDaddy23,
I would encourage both of you the learn about “Compersion”. It is life changing for couples in the lifestyle. My wife and I have learned that swapping and seeing each other giving and receiving pleasure from others is a joyful and happy occasion. It’s just fun sex and has nothing to with your personal relationship. Communications is the key. It certainly has enhanced ours.

 

AMEN!

 

I learned it (way back in 1974) and how important it is when you open up your marriage to other people. Not everyone can learn it, though. Some people think doing this is easy and it really isn't. I have personally seen couples get destroyed because they couldn't learn compersion. A shame...

 

Not everyone can learn that mindset. Even in my ex wife's case where she became bored easily with the same man's cock and had to have variety, she couldn't bring herself to take on two men at the same time, but had no problem taking on one after another in a short period of time. So an open marriage wasn't for her per se, nor was she game for a threeway to satisfy her urges for variety so she had a life of miserably failed relationships.

 

Having had those kind of thoughts earlier in life I was pleasantly surprised that when our first time came I had zero problems with it . It was an extreme turn-on .

 

I'd always imagined to be but never got the chance with the bimbos I was with who prefered to fuck in private with others.

 

Guess I don't need to tell you that if you get the chance.....take it !

 

That's good advice and greatly appreciated but yes if the opportunity ever comes my way and it's possible I will definitely jump on it.

 

Hope my wife doesn't see this post because she isn't on board with that sort of thing. Just kidding honey. Love you.

 

I've watched my wife kiss, make out with and suck her boyfriend's BIG beautiful dick while he fingered her. It was the hottest thing I've ever seen and most turned on I've ever been

 

Hopefully this week in a 3some with my wife's old (but 10yrs younger) FWB of 6 years ago before we met.

 

Many years ago my wife and I had a a night of erotic, exotic ecstasy with a male friend. It followed several earlier encounters of necking and petting that were increasingly intimate. But what a night….jealousy became inappropriate and we all were on board. I remember my wife playing with his cock after our first bout that led to her getting the ride of her life.

We never had a repeat….my wife still remembers it as the best se- she ever had and I never knew such erotic passion.

 

Curious……if it was the best sex she ever had, and erotic passion, why no repeat? My fiancé/wife and I had a few MFMs with a good friend, and she thoroughly enjoyed them. I didn’t have to ask as her numerous orgasms spoke louder than any words. She was the one to invite him back a night or two later with the same results. Our next times were just as intense. Yes, he was that good. Amazed at how easily and how often she came with him. Usually 2-3 with us alone…..but those times with him at least four. When we’d talk afterwards she’d say he was good……never that it was the best sex she’d ever had. That would feel like a kick to the balls! Sounds like she was cucking you. No offense intended!

 

Why no repeat? Maybe once was enough for her.