Is EVERYONE a little bit gay?

notice how gay people often seem the most free? We would say flamboyant? I have absolutely no interest in sexual relations with the opposite sex but even I wonder if this is just a mental block. Often "totally straight" people will be homophobic, which is ironic because fear stems from an unwillingness to confront something within you. So maybe yes everyone is gay but that doesnt change the fact that I can't imagine myself boning another dude. Well I can imagine it, but it seems repulsive. I guess the only way to decide for sure is to try it, but good luck getting over that mentality cause I for one do not think I could go through with it. But that might just be the fear talking...

 

I too believe there are very few 100% "straight" people out there. I think society and social settings prevent a lot of people from being their true to themselves

 

0vergeneralizations classifying "everyone" as anything are a slippery slope indeed.
That said, I think that human sexuality is more complex and multifaceted than many can understand and most care to admit, and and sexual preferences are not either/or dichotomies, but a continuum, our place upon which can shift and change over our lifetimes.

 

In my opinion, I'd say yes. In reality, there's probably far fewer people out there who are 100% "straight" than there is gay/bisexual people out there

 

I think so. If everyone was honest with themselves, I'd say everyone is probably "a little bit gay."

 

Right now, I'm pegging the needle off of the dial. There's times where I just can't get enough anal stimulation. And that's the definition of gay sex to me. Everyone has their favorite dish. Mine is my ass.

 

I believe that all men have a little curiosity in them. I’d say a fair bit of them are just worried that it would get out that they did something with another man. To them I say this, if you hook up with a bi/gay man, they aren’t going to out you. For one, they were there once and know what you are feeling. Two, they want you to come back for more and outting you would be bad for that.

 

The only person who's opinion matters is my wife.
I once had a conversation (ok, there were several conversations with him) with a gay man online who threatened to out me to my wife , that I was "actually gay." I quickly came clean to my wife about the conversations, and ended all communication with him.
She knows I'm a bisexual bottom with guys, but that still doesn't make me "gay."
I've noticed some gay men (certainly not all) are very. manipulative and try to be very persuasive when it comes to bi guys

 

Well, there will always be that one guy or two that is gonna act like a **** and do something like that. Basically all the men that i've been with prefer married men and have kept my anonymity intact. Not only would it ruin my marriage but I'd stop coming to see them.

 

I was really shocked that he was going to "out" me. I actually thought he would have been more "sympathetic and accepting" of my situation as an openly gay man himself. Obviously I was wrong.
Even though I'm bisexual, I think I "connect" better with gay men for a couple different reasons.
First, it seems to be the majority of bisexual guys are bottoms (I'm a total bottom and sexually submissive with guys)... And finding a bisexual guy who's a total top is very rare.
Secondly, unlike most (not necessarily all) bisexual guys, I need/want/crave intimacy/romance and not "just sex" with another guy (I guess I'm just wired different than the majority of bisexual guys out there), and believe it would be easier to connect with a gay man who'd also be interested in kissing/making out, cuddling and hugging like I am