I want to tell my wife I'm bi

I personally wouldn't suggest doing this nor would I have wanted my 1st wife to walk in on this. However, this is what took place with me and my suck-bud of many years. We met through a Craig's List ad and hit it off immediately and have been sucking each other off for almost eight years now. One afternoon he and I were 69 sucking each other in his bed, his wife was away and not due back for hours. We finished and upon coming down stairs his wife was sitting on the couch and asked if we enjoyed each other's company. She stated she witnessed our escapade's and needed some answers from her husband. It was a rocky road for a few months but she stayed with him and accepted his sexuality. He and his wife became close friends with me and my wife and yes, we occasionally enjoy each others wives and they accept that he and I need each other to sexually complete ourselves. We both enjoy sex with our wives and continue to have man sex and at times indulge in a very satisfying M/F/M threesome.

 

Tell her it may turn her on.

 

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My wife told me she was into women. Huge turn on for me. 6 months later I told her I am into men. Huge turn on for her. Very positive for OUR marriage.

 

That’s interesting. I think would be fun to explore things and be open with the wife. I’m bi curious mostly but would enjoy mutual oral

 

Tell her. If she cares and loves you, this will turn out amazing. My wife loves watching me get fucked by other guys.

 

There is always a risk in coming out to anyone who thinks you're completely hetero. Just came out to my wife about 2 months ago and she seemed to take it well and now she is afraid I will leave her for a man and she flat out asked me if I am sure I am bi and not gay. Not sure where all this is going to lead but I love her and don't want to lose her but damnit I have been untrue to myself and her for over 30 yrs. Hopefully she will come to a point of totally accepting me for who I am and we can go forward from there. She has admitted to me that she is bicurious (I already knew this ) and I hope we can both get what we need and still be together

 

Mine has always suspected me of being bi anyway. So I told her

 

What was her reaction?

 

You're a lucky man - how long have you been married? You're ages?

 

Been married 32 yrs and am 58 and 52

 

I came out to my wife three years ago my love of wearing her panties. She was accepting and supportive and surprised me that she had already known it for years. I would love for her to be that understanding of my secret flings with a male friend of ours. I've wondered if she has figured that out too. My biggest fantasy is having her watching me and him together . She is supportive of others who are gay and bi but I don't she could accept her husband as such. Especially with our friend

 

a bit shocked at first but not hysterical, said she knew from some of the things she had seen me do. said, if that's what i wanted to do, then do it. Now she watches sometimes

 

I am in the same boat. I am bi & like to suck cocks but cant tell my wife, it would mean an instant divorce. we still have sex but not as often, prefer cocks

 

My wife knew I was bi ever since we had a threesome. Hell in a threesome every one makes out with each other at least we did. I sucked my first cock in a threesome.

 

Why wouldn't she accept you as bisexual? She already knows you love wearing panties (her panties), so why don't you think she'd accept the fact that you're bisexual?
Are you a bottom or a top with your "friend", and if you happen to be a botty, do you think that would cause your wife to look at you "differently?"

 

Nice name ("Little penis")... Is it safe to assume you're a bottom with men?

 

Not all crossdressers are bisexual or gay. I don't seek out other men. I am a member of a nude resort but I don't feel any attraction toward any guy I see. Yes, I do have a male friend that is also married that I have played with. Yes, I have done oral on him. We have never had any type of anal play. Am I curious? Yes. Curious to be a bottom. I've topped my wife so I know what it's like. I won't deny I could if I was into labels maybe say I'm bisexual. I think it's just a thing that kind of works between him and I.
In regards to our wives knowing. His definitely wouldn't accept it. She hates knowing that I even dressup. He doesn't like me dressed either. My wife is pretty open minded. It's possible she would understand just as she does my dressing up. I feel though being she is non sexual on account of bad health she may either resent me or feel guilty causing me to do it. She is accepting of LGBTQ ways of life. Not sure of it being her husband.
Please don't make assumptions. You kind of did of me and of others I've noticed. But I'm sure I cleared mine up

 

Wow how lucky is that. That’s really awesome sure would be nice if more relationships were like that.

 

How did your wife react at hearing your admission?