Question For Men That Are Married Or In A Relationships With Women.

Agreed. Any man who enjoys sex with women and men is BISEXUAL, not "straight" and NOT gay. He's just a bisexual guy

 

I am a married bisexual man. I've been secretly bisexual most of my life. I was in the experimental phase for the longest time. I'd get the opportunity to have some sort of sexual encounter with another man. I'd enjoy it but afterwards I'd feel ashamed of what I had done. Like it was something I wasn't supposed to do. Then I got divorced from my first wife and an older man that I knew but never had spoken to invited me to his house. I was freshly separated from my wife and my head was a mess. The term "sexual healing" was so appropriate. That first night he took me into his bedroom. He told me to get undressed and get in bed and he would take care of the rest. He sucked me off to completion and we just laid there naked and talked. He said, "I don't expect you to do anything after tonight. If you want to do this again, just call or text and we can make it happen. No pressure."

We were in an unofficial relationship. He took things slow and he knew just how to win me over. He was never pushy. Being a divorced gay man himself, he knew exactly what to do to me to keep me coming back. Sometimes he would text that he was going to watch a new movie and asked if I wanted to go. Nothing sexual or even romantic happened. Just two guys hanging out. He would ask if I wanted to get something to eat. We would go to a place and just eat. No pressure. The first 5 months or so, he would wait for me to text him for sex. At first it would be once a week or sometimes once every other week. I was conflicted and still unsure if what I was doing was wrong or immoral. But I'd get so horny I couldn't stand it anymore and I'd text him. Then it started increasing in frequency. It was increasing to once a week. Then twice a week. Around a year after our first encounter, we were having sex like 4-5 times a week. He would let me top if I wanted to but most of the time I didn't want to. He would fuck me and I just enjoyed it.

That happened for about 4 years and I honestly didn't even think about women. Then I met my current wife. She managed to completely turn me back to women only (for a time). Eventually, I would get urges to have sex with men and I would have to satiate that.

 

I think that some just aren't getting it from their wives and just want sex. Some like me are also sub so want to try bottom.

 

I realize you consider yourself "pretty much gay", but if you still have sex with your wife (even if it's "limited"), wouldn't that make you bisexual?
I'm a bisexual guy myself, and your situation has me very intrigued. I'd like to hear more about how you came to the conclusion that you're actually gay after all the years if you'd be willing to share