How many "straight" husbands enjoy gay play?

I started doing stuff with guys when I was 13, only sex no relationships. I got married when I was 24, i'm 34 now. I do meet one guy from time to time that I met online about 2 years ago, he is bi and not married. It's great we meet, please each other, and go our own ways. My wife does not know. Is this wrong... yeah because i'm keeping it away from her. Do I want to stop meeting him, not really I enjoy it so much. But I also love what me and my wife has.

Rick

 

A couple of quick questions.
Did you decide to try bi play out of your own curiousity, boredom with your marital sex life, or were you asked by a gay/bi friend who awakened a curiousity?
Are you limited to what you do? Do you just meet someone for a bj or handjob or are you into it?
Are you into other guys, like kissing and hugging or are you just interested in cock?

 

I started out young,about 11/12 yrs old.It was one of my friends who made the 1st move.We were playing in the woods,he then got undressed,and asked me to do the same.He then got close and started to have a play fight.At this point he kissed me on the cheek,then on the lips,i did not pull away.We both lay down,he got on top,moving his body in a motion,that was a nice feeling.That was a start,of a boy 2 boy fun.Since i have tried to find the same excitement,but never found it.

 

I'm bi but most dont know it.

 

It wasn't that I was curious, I was approached by a guy and asked if I'd like a blow job. I responded "really?"...he said yeah. Off into the woods we went where he gave me the best blow job I ever experienced up to that point and swallowed my load. I never told my wife, and stopped over to his house twice a week for blowjobs for about six months. It ended as he wanted an open relationship which I did not. It was about a year later I met a married guy for mutual oral every week at my house as my wife and I worked different hours. She came home for lunch one day and caught the two of us naked in the 69 position on the living room floor. Well, that was not cool as she was pissed and he quickly left. My wife and I discussed it at length as I did love her and she knew that but was confused why I would be with a man. I explained my obsession for being sucked...she knew that as she sucked me off several times a week. I explained I had an obsession for "cock"...not men in general. To shorten the story she forgave me for cheating and said she was open to permit my obsession as long as she was present. It brought us closer as we eventually were sucking dick together and it turned her on so much to see me deep throat his 9".

 

I had started thinking about cock again after 30 years of marriage. I wasn't getting much at home and was beginning to watch gay porn. I loved seeing big hard cocks
shooting out sperm and knew I would love sucking cock and drinking their loads because I experimented with a friend when we were young teenagers. Finally I met a guy
from CL that became my regular cock to suck. I eventually let him fuck my virgin ass which feels fantastic. I guess you could say I am a happy bottom who still enjoys women
and being married.

 

As a bisexual guy, I've never been "straight." I have enjoyed one-on-one sex with other guys though, so yes, I guess you can say I enjoy "gay play." That still doesn't make me gay. I always have been and always will be a bisexual guy. LOL

 

Any guy who enjoys having gay sex ISN'T "straight." They might not be totally gay, but they certainly aren't straight either.

 

My curiosity had always been there but my wife always satisfied me sexually. It was about four years ago that I indulged with someone I knew. We were both curious and our needs weren't being met at home anymore. I find myself more comfortable in our play than he does. We don't get to meet much anymore either

 

For me it had always been a curiosity that I pushed aside in favor of my marriage. As time passed and along with it my wife’s waning sex drive due to menopause it became more and more difficult to ignore. My wife and I talked about the lack of sex in our marriage to no avail. She simply has no interest or desire. She at one point stated she didn’t want to know how I solve the dilemma on my own. So I meet with men in secret without her knowledge.
It’s not what I would prefer, but if I’m going to have any sexual satisfaction at all it’s what’s available.

It’s very easy to for some to judge not being in the same situation. But I find in my situation I have no other option other than to be sexually frustrated and resent my wife for it. At least with the solution I have turned to I don’t resent her and the rest of our marriage isn’t affected.

 

If you are married to a woman and having gay sex you are not straight.

 

Absolutely! Any guy who enjoys sex with men, married or not is definitely NOT "straight." While the majority of married guys who also enjoy having gay sex are probably bisexual, it's probably not that uncommon for some of those guys to actually be hiding their true selves, and by not admitting that they're actually gay.

 

I’ve tried it a few times. I am happily married, but just curious about gay sex. I am naturally a top. I have had a couple of mutual oral hookups, gotten a few BJs, but nothing has rocked my world yet. I guess you can say I am looking for someone to bring out my inner homo.

 

Interesting. Does your wife know about your curiosity for gay sex?
There's lots of us guys out there who'd like to meet the right guy, so we can let our "freak flags" fly, and totally enjoy one-on-one gay sex with

 

I'm a husband, but I'm NOT straight. I'm bisexual (my wife is also bi), so YES, I enjoy gay sex, just as my wife enjoys lesbian sex