Why Straight Guys Have Sex With Straight Guys

Are you Man Friday? lol

 

Friday, Monday, whatever day it is. Especially trapped on an island. LMAO

 

When I read this article, it felt like to was written by someone young 20s with zero experience and everything they learned was from the TV.

My lifelong experience has been raised by a 60s nudist hippy mom from the 60s. We had a fun house, so friends loved coming over. I knew I was gay but curious. Lots of sleep overs turned to circle jerks. We were a mixed bunch gay, bi and straight. We all had our own levels of what we would do or not do sexually and had nothing to do with our sexuality. NOT a single one of us changed our sexuality because of it. It was fun to all and some did try new thing with mixed results of that was fun or hell no never again. We remained in touch all our lives and non-changed their sexuality. This was in Southern California and in the 70s and very open parents. I do think location and era and our parents so open minded were a BIG difference! In the bible belt this would have been so dam taboo!

Adult life was much different I joined the military, and those days were much different from today. You told no one or you were out. I never saw anything beyond towel snapping ever occur. I was nonsexual for many years in order to stay in. I loved the military and that was a sacrifice I was more than willing to make.

One of those childhood friends became a prison guard and said that no heterosexual guy in prison became gay or acted out gay willingly. Straight guys simply masturbated alone while the other guy was outside. There were gays and there were rapes. rapes were very seldom and nothing like the movies/TV

Another became a pro athlete and said nudity was common in the lockers but never any sex play even towel snapping was pretty limited.

I just don't see or hear straight adult men being sexual with each other especially how I perceived the article. There certainly is especially with collage aged men sex play as in towel snapping, mooning/flashing going on.

What we are seeing is gays young and old feeling safer coming out. Safer physically emotionally and their acceptance from family friends and society. My experience growing up was we were all curious we all had fun and we all were unconfirmed in our sexuality and our sex play simply confirmed what we knew but had to be done to know for certain. Not one of us had any regrets! Those without this experience and maybe in a strict house were gay but forced raised straight only to find out later its not the case. Doesn't mean he "turned" gay.

 

Hi Karen: The concept of Two women enjoying intimacy with each other may go back to antiquity, probably in cultures that allowed men to have multiple wives. The exhausted husbands could get rejuvenated by watching women pleasuring each other. Sex with other men was taboo in some cultures and allowed in others. Usually there was a dominant-submissive element such as sex with a Eunuch or a slave. Romantic intimacy between two men is probably more recent and not widely accepted.

 

The concept of 2 women sharing intimacy is Hot.

 

We are all curious about something that we have not sone. Women have needs and desires which men may not notice until they get older.

 

I rambled a bit. What did you like about the post?

 

"You're not gay unless you receive" ISN'T necessarily true. I'm a bi bottom with guys, and married to a woman. Just because I enjoy "receiving" it from another guy DOESN'T make me "gay." I'm just a bisexual married man who happens to be a bottom with men.

 

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I considered myself straight for the longest time. (I don't anymore) My ex wife and I used to hang out with another couple on the weekends. We would have dinner and watch movies, play games, or whatever. To make a long story short, eventually me and the other husband started sucking each other off. I was happily married and so was he. It was a combination of not getting sex enough from our wives and having a friend to do hot naughty things with. We didn't make it weird. Soon as the women would leave to go shopping, we would get naked.

 

I agree. As a bisexual married guy who's a total bottom with men, that doesn't mean I'm gay. Obviously, I'm not straight either. LOL
I love women (my wife specifically), and also really like (love) a nice BIG dick in my mouth and ass occasionally... Not gay, not straight, I'm just a bisexual guy who's a total bottom with men

 

From my point of view, you are indeed a gay. I'd say every bi is seen as a gay by many people.

 

WOW! How does that "make me gay?" YES, I'm a total bottom with men, and by definition two guys having sex together IS gay sex... But I'm also married to a great woman, and we have a fun and very kinky sex life. Do I enjoy sex with another man as much as I do with my wife? YES, sometimes I do.
NOT gay. NOT straight. I'm just a married bisexual guy who happens to be a total bottom with men.
Bisexuality is it's own sexual orientation.

 

Sorry (NOT SORRY), But you don't get to say who ore what I am. Yes, I'm married to a woman, and YES, I'm bisexual and a total bottom with men, but if I was "indeed a gay" (or "totally gay") as you put it, I wouldn't be sexually attracted to or married to a woman.

 

Found this in several threads now. I have to wonder if someone is trying to prank someone by having Dick pics sent to an unsuspecting person to get some kind of reaction. the part o fhte comment

suggests to me someone is about to get punked.

 

I sometimes think that when article like this come out, they overlook the obvious: The sex feels good. I won't tell if you won't. Even though the sex is gay, it doesn't mean that either guy is gay or bi.