Would using a large dildo ruin sex with your bf/husband?

Try a bigger one you will love it

 

no we can easily enjoy sex without havin that involved

 

My wife thoroughly enjoys our toys that are in the 2" to 2.25" diameter. We have a 2.75" diameter one that, if she's really feeling in the mood, she enjoys as well. However, in the end, she loves the feeling of my cock the most. I think it's the skin on skin, body on body, real deal thing she enjoys the most.

 

DV is also hot. But I also don't care about tightness or looseness. Pleasure is key

 

I tell my wife bring anything into the bedroom she wants. It doesn’t hurt my feelings, and I encourage it.

 

I've never been a big fan of toys, as I like the skin on skin contact. My girlfriend likes to fist my pussy and it goes back to usual size quickly, after she has had her fun.

 

I've a large collection of toys. Naturally, covering a multitude of bases from glass dildos to remote activated vibrator. BDSM restraints to a sex swing. My reasoning: sometimes you want something different!

 

We never tried a sex toy. Before she tells me to cum I reach down and spread her skin.
It's does not have any more room for something wider. As far as deep, I can feel the bottom of her. I have my favorite space that I cum in.
When she is really hot she makes me get right in the center of her so I can shoot it straight into her puss.
Her girlfriend that I have her ok. It takes me about an hour or two to get it in all the way. I do not want to change that with a big toy.
It only goes in an inch or too and I just walk it in deeper. When I finally bury it we both go crazy. I have to hold on to her when I cum because she squirms all over the bed. When I relax I can feel her suction sucking more juices out of me. This really feel good. One night I left it in her all night and could hardly walk the next morning. She loved it and I was not sure. Then my wife wanted sex, I talked her out of it. She likes lots of sperm. She said she can feel the little swimmers.

 

I don't tell anyone how long it takes to get it in. She just thinks that we get rid of her girlfriend hooking up with a stranger. Most of the time we don't make a mess at all. I went for a long time without sex and I cum in her finally, not a drop of discharge. She also had her legs spread all the way open so that was not the reason it took so long to bury it. She moved away and I sure miss our memories. We went to the show once and she sat on my lap and I came in her the whole length of the show. Every time I dropped it in her I held her tight so she wouldn't react to the loads. I had a sperm count done and I tested very high after my wife was slow getting pregnant. This was wild. The nurse and I were alone. I got an erection and I told her that I could come and nothing would run out of my wife. The next thing I knew she was on my lap with me inside of her. We went for a long time and I dumped in her. Yes no mess even though she took off her pants so her husband would not notice the sperm stains. We would pass each other on the street and she would just smile. Then later my girlfriends Mother and I got together she would cum clear out of herself. That was good too. My girlfriend wanted me to cum in her, I faked it and came in her Mother as she was safe sense she was married.

 

But you do sound like a size queen......

The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret

 

I bought my fwb a huge dildo which we will occasionally use. Love to watch her eyes roll into her head lol.

 

Our biggest dildo is 9 inches long and 2 inches thick. Much larger than my cock. She prefers the smaller toys, but likes being filled by this one. It has not had any effect on our sex life or her enjoyment of fucking with me.

 

If you are worried about tightness you can probably relax on that one. The skin around the vagina and the rectum has a great elasticity. So the occasional session with your new 12” friend should not cause you any issues. Speaking as a man I use dildos on my girlfriend occasionally. She loves the full feeling of me or the dildos. Im very open minded so we use dildos a lot. We even have a double ended dildo we use together. Using toys together should bring you closer together.

 

With me. But with me takes her longer. With the dildo she cums in about 5 minutes. With me about 15.

 

I think it enhanced our sex life. I found out she liked thick, I say that because depth was never a part of it except once when we had a random 3sum with a guy.
First time after 5 years of marriage she had been out of town for a week, when she got home she was wearing a mini skirt and I was going down on her in stairwell. She was really horny and very wet, more than normal. I had her stay there and I got a cucumber from the kitchen. Her face told the story when she saw what I had in mind. It was really thick but she had little trouble taking 5 or 6 inches in and she started having an orgasm. A very different orgasm, pushing it out of her and shaking like a leaf. Then back in her and another one in a maybe 2 minutes. I came immediately after entering her.
She never mentioned the encounter and neither did I. Sometime later I was going down on her and fingering her, she was extremely wet again. Next thing I know she is taking my hand all the way in her and orgasming hugely. That night she admitted that she really liked it big and I asked her how many big ones she had, I am very average, why did you marry me. She clammed up and didn’t want to talk about it.
Months later I bought a life like dildo, not easy to find back then. Seeing her orgasm on it was erotic, she only ever took at most 7 inches in her and that was briefly when I was using it on her. We began to role play after that, she loved it when she was asleep and I’d come to bed finger her a bit and roll her on to her stomach. She didn’t want me to speak during this and she was actually living out a fantasy of being taken by someone else.

 

From me. Got her to cum on the dildo at first. Then she got on me for 2 more cums. I was soaked. Felt great