The Lack of Sex can kill you! How do you deal with it?

The Lack of sex, for a male, is not healthy and can lead to many complications over time.
It doesn't seem to phase a woman and they can fade out, as some of us old guys turn into dirty old men.
How Do you Handle this Situation?
In the same respect, Great Sex could also kill You. What a way to go.

 

I think you need to look for an outlet.
If that's a discreet meet with others or just wanking to keep the pipes clear is up to you.

Myself I would wank some but I would also look for the opportunity to bang someone else or get blown.

It seems a lot of old guys start blowing each other from what I read here.

I'm not looking to suck old cock but , I'm not there yet. I still notice younger women and would probably prefer a younger male if I was sucking cock or having sex with him

 

Oh you mean the trouble sleeping, trouble concentrating, headaches, complete loss of hope and looking forward to nothing in the future? Nope. Not me.

 

Just don't give up hope, hope of finding someone to love you. Don't let that dreaded disease "Lackanookie" make you do desperate acts of horniness and take dumb chances that might not turn out so well. Keep a positive attitude. I have hope and my future is bright.

 

Thanks for the well wishes and I wish you the best, but after about half a century of failure I am compelled to look at my life realistically and with precedent.

 

Yeah it's not good.....getting older and being aware of reduced ability can be a bit of a downer, and I go through spells of feast and famine with regard to sex due mainly to where my home is.

But there are plenty of young guys who are into us oldies, and for me as a committed bottom, enough horny young guys who like to top.

But as to turning into a ' dirty old man' , I totally reject the phrase. All of us at all times of life potentially have sexual desires and needs and I resent that the phrase is applied to us. Imho there is nothing dirty that happens between two or more consenting human adults....so 'horny old man' sure.

Keep it up

Simon

 

My wife will be the dutiful wife and let me have my way with her. But without the hormones and her also having the desire, it's not the same.

I've fucked younger women. And a variety of men. With her blessing? No. But I'm not going to deprive myself of happiness because her libido has waned

 

I orgasm on a regular basis, either with my girlfriend, a safe-sex encounter with a man, or on my own. All three methods work well.

 

If I can't find a willing partner I masturbate. Needless to say, I masturbate a lot, but I enjoy playing with my cock.

 

I wish I could say that was enough for me. It takes off the edge for me I guess but afterwards in post nut clarity I realize how alone I am. The older I get the less I do it and the less I enjoy it
Not to take away from your happiness. You really like to do it so by all means keep bringing some joy to your life if you can! Why wouldn't you?

 

Your response is not taking anything away from my happiness.
No it is not necessarily enough for me. I greatly miss a woman's soft, warm, wet mouth on my cock. I greatly miss eating pussy for hours. I greatly miss the wonderful feeling of sliding my cock into a hot, sloppy, wet pussy. Yes, I wish I could find more willing partners, but that's not always easy. So, I make do and the fact that I love playing with my cock helps immensely and makes servicing myself much more enjoyable. Hell, at my age I'm happy my cock still works perfectly!!!!!

 

When I die I hope to die either of these two ways.....either sound asleep where I feel no pain and just don't wake up or in the midst of sex while having one earth shattering, last orgasm!!!!

 

Haha…I always tell people I don’t want to grow old in a rocking chair…the middle or an orgasm would be my way to go as well!

 

Kinda like cumming and going at the same time!!!!

 

Oh…good title for a novel or movie!

 

You forgot to add " get a few toys"

 

You just got to have an outlet to relieve the tension and the buildup of needing sexual activity. If you don’t have a spouse or significant other, there are other options. Masturbation is always the easy answer for that release. Maybe try out some sex toys or invest in one of those realistic looking sex dolls. Otherwise I would seek out a friend with benefits or maybe try the swinging lifestyle. I’m sure that there are people out there just looking for a hookup without any aspects of an actual relationship.

 

I wish consensual NSA sex was easier to find to hook up without the hang ups

 

my solution.. I see escorts. I try to find one I click with and see her every week. I am in USA and I can do one hour per week for mot too much money.. $300-$500. To me it is so much easier than dating, and probably no more expensive. And I get precisely what I want.

 

I haven’t felt sexual touch in 28 months. I am scratching at the walls.