Has the lack of sex at home driven you towards your Bi Curiosities

yes it has been with 3 others when married the first time.
she knew iwas bi and wanted to watch me get anal

 

Hey,"If the shoe fits".Do the wives know that you guys are doing each other? The experience is hot, but doing it when you have spouse's support, makes it even hotter.

 

Hey, if you guys are enjoying pleasuring each other without their participation or knowledge I say go for it. Your wives are neglecting you both, but you have found each other to fill that void. GO FOR IT and enjoy!

 

You just hit my problem right on the money.

 

Well said! Thanks for sharing

 

Man, I'm the same way. My wife has had issues with meds that she has to take & it's destroyed her sex drive. Another woman is completely out of the question. However, I've found myself more & more interested in giving, & receiving bj's from a man. I get excited thinkin' about &, then, kick myself in the ass for it. Haven't even acted on it yet. Don't even know how to start.

 

You've never actually been alone in your journey even though you may have felt that way. So many of us married men are frustrated because our wives (that we love dearly) just lost their sexual desires and it can wreak havoc within one's mind. Porn and masturbation will alleviate the loss of her personal touch and activity for some time but the physical activity of another is so badly wanted and needed. We want a womans touch so bad yet are denied it and it can be devastating to one's ego as it was for me. I had a brief affair with a neighbor's wife for about six weeks that was beyond exciting and pleasurable but the guilt and possibility of being caught had us end our get togethers after six times. This very woman who I had an affair with suggested I stop by her barber shop; she had a number of gay friends that enjoyed providing oral pleasures to married men in my situation. The thought of another man sucking my cock was not what I was really looking for but agreed to stop by in a few days when she had something arranged. I arrived as the two of them were talking while sitting in the barber chairs and she immediately made her chair available to me and asked me to take a seat. I was in my mid 30's and he looked to be in his mid 20's and was rather good looking. As I took my seat, she came around the back of my chair as he was on his knees between my legs and whispers in my ear as she gently licked it "just close your eyes and enjoy". I did as she asked as he took my cock into his mouth as she maneuvered forward to make out with me and unbutton my shirt to caress my chest as he was sucking my cock. I didn't last but 6 minutes as I felt myself ejaculate into his eager mouth to swallow every bit of my cum.

I drove home still feeling guilty to come home to the same old, same old environment. It's so frustrating. It was my next encounter that changed everything for me because I was wanting to know what it is like to suck on another man's cock. I came to the conclusion that my wife of 40 years of age and very desirable to me wanted nothing to do with sex and I found myself hooking up with other married men for mutual oral sex that were in the very same situation that I was in. I found my solution and do not regret it one bit.

 

Its ok because to my wife, its a No Harm, No Foul. She once told me that I could suck all of the cock I want, but Pussy is off the Menu. It is a fun and easy alternative to no sex at all.,

 

Most definitely the lack of sex from my wife has pushed me to bi sex

 

Yes, absolutely. Lack of interesting open minded sex, her religious hangups and hallmark channel and watered down vanilla libido have all led to my being more interested in finding bi playmates. Not for lack of begging for decades for what I want only to be refused. I have told her I am not going sexually punish myself by depriving myself of an opportunity when it arises. She can be a part of it, watch, join, or opt out, I no longer care. She'd rather not know or see, but I won't lie by hiding if I go to meet a guy. Have had some points in our past when I simply told her, I'm going to meet a guy for a while. She's never thrilled, but has not packed my things. Or hers. I have told her if she'd be more open minded about my having dick, my dick would be more excited at home and she'd get more...

 

I am AMAZED at how many men are all in the same boat.

If wives were to read this thread, it should be a wake-up call to all of them!

 

100% agree

 

Add me to the list, lack of sex at home, has me on the prowl....almost daily.

 

I've said this so many times to the many other married men I was getting together with for some great mutual sucking. In a way I was glad the wives weren't as interested in sucking cock because I came across some many men with very sexy cocks to suck on over the years. Their loss was my gain.

 

For me, it came with having a small cock. One day a year or so ago, I got my wife to admit that I was small. She obviously didn't want to, but I convinced her to be honest. After admitting she was curious about larger (I was her first and only), I asked her how big she was interested in. With that, she held her hands about 9" apart. I told her that was about 9" and she didn't believe me until I measured the distance between her hands. We had just had sex and were fully naked. Her admission really turned me on as I was excited about her being honest and untypically comfortable in her sexuality. It was obvious that I was aroused and that was when I told her how much I wanted her to experience exactly what she wanted and as often as she needed. I'd get great satisfaction watching and being with her and seeing her provide men the same satisfaction she was getting from them.

Anyway, that started our cuckold/sharing fantasies. We soon began to discuss which cocks she liked when watching videos or looking at pictures. I began to develop an admiration for any man larger than me and soon she would tease me about my curiosity. Since, I have thought more about what it would be like to hold a man in my hands, play with a man in my mouth and ultimately help him achieve release. Knowing how good it feels, I've become interested in providing that feeling to a man.

 

Yes my wife and I use to fuck every day almost. And I never had a thought of meeting someone else for sex. Then as we got older she did not want regular sex. She will jerk me off from time to time but I miss the hugging and kissing and being held righty as she came. We use to watch porn but no longer do. Then I was in on line one time and a guy offered me a blowjob. It was great he loved to suck my cock. After him I found others to do it and enjoyed every one. I must have been blown by 50 different guys so far. To get a women to blow you there is too much BS involved. Jerking off gets old. I feel guilty from time to time but if she didn’t cut me off I would not be interested in guys. I actually love jerking guys off and someday I will suck a cock.

 

Can't help but wonder, if we didn't marry the same woman, Lol. Sounds like my story.

 

For years I would reach over in bed and touch my wife - not necessarily in a sexual manner - but in a manner that said I want to be close to you. The first thing out of her mouth was "don't."

When going to sleep at night, she would always tell me she couldn't sleep with me facing her - I needed to roll over, and move over as I was too close.

There were even times when she would put her feet on my back and push me away. I told her that I could not sleep with her under these conditions any longer, so I started sleeping in the guest room, and she hated that.

She finally saw the light and stopped all that BS. We now sleep in the same bed, and even cuddle in the mornings before we get up, but there really is no sex any more.

This makes me sad!

 

Well, at least you are getting the love and cuddling. It's a shame we have to look elsewhere for sex. It's a true shame, that women don't understand me and how just because one side, can't or doesn't want to, the other side still has the natural urges...