Risky meeting someone close to home if your on the downlow?

That's the sort of thing I like to hear. A woman who just 'gets it' about sex for guys and also respecting confidentiality.
Those people often provide a valuable service.
They may let a guy do something with them that the wife won't allow him to do. That can be sex of any sort, if she has gone off it for whatever reason, or it could be any of the many things that guys like to try that some women won't.
The result can be that sex-workers
1. reduce the build-up of resentment that can destroy a marriage
2. Achieve (1) in the context of neither falling in love of having an affair
3. Achieve (1) in the context of him not thinking of leaving home (with her, at least).

Good things, imv. Good people and certainly not all trashy/disreputable. Drawing a line between classy and trashy should be another thread.

 

I hate to brag but not only do I get pussy next door but cock as well. I live in a small community that thrives on gossip. My partners that I hook up with are all on board keeping our get together private. 1st and foremost is Helen 2 houses down from mine. She lost her husband 2 yrs ago and is a sexual dynamo. She is 67 yrs old and still has the body of a 20 yr old, she sucks cock and swallows with the best of them. I meet up with her at least twice a week. My 2 nd playmate live on the Sam block but is male. He and I have been playing for 3 yrs and know one knows not even my wife. When sexual frustration sets in I have an option for anything.

 

I know that feeling. When you get horny and worked up, you tend to let your guard down.

In the end, you made the safe choice. It's safer to plan things out a little, especially when trying to be discreet.

 

I have a local bi married guy we have been seeing each other semi regularly for over 7 years .. we often go for coffee which usually ends up us together sucking and fucking .. often see each other in local shopping area with wives .. we stop and chat .. nothing weird .. we know each other through business

 

Lucky you. I'm searching, I have a few friends that I think are 'game', but we just haven't gotten on the same wave length yet.

 

I know a local guy I met through Doublelist who likes me to come over, get naked, stroke his cock. and hold him at the edge for a while. Then he gives me the go-ahead and I bring him to climax. Cleanup is quick and I am ushered out the door. Pretty straightforward, but too mechanical for my taste.

I need a boyfriend who is just as empathetic as my girlfriend. I am naturally affectionate. I have met guys like that for one-time-only safe sex before when I've been on the road, so I know it is possible.

 

would that really be so bad?
unless one had someone else not in the loop?

 

one ought not foul one's own nest.. NEVER foul the nest of one you purport to love and didn't give consent..

more to the point:

if you play be prepared to pay

do not play at home if another believes the shared bed is shared only with you..

do not insult your partner by bringing another 'partner' into your house without their consent..

do not bring disease home.



iow: like a physician's oath..

first, do no harm

 

I agree with your values but unfortunately the lines get blurred when someone has wants or needs outside of their relationship. Some stray some might just not act on the urge but I'm sure there is a that goes undiscovered, doesn't make it right but some people gotta do what they want to do because they have to live their life.

 

It's a shame he's not in touch with you.

Maybe he should have just kept it quiet and something discrete and ongoing with you

 

I never said a word about whether or not they 'should' have fun/follow urges'..

follow the thread: I'm commenting on the dangers of playing around too close to home..

you're likely to get caught, whether a tiny town or next door or married best friend or in your own house..

I have no problem whatever if two people -or more - want to have fun..

just be aware..
one loose hair on your sheets or an earring or scent if another guys aftershave can spoil the party..

not playing around in one's own bed when the wife is at the store isn't 'just' about respect for someone else.. it's self preservation.. the easiest bucks to be shot in deer season are too preoccupied with finding a little fun..

thinking about not hurting someone else is just another way of saying "if you wanna play and don't think enough of your own safety - think about what "could happen" if shit hits the fan"

 

Wow
What happened

 

I hook up with a guy based on sharing cock photos. When I arrived at his home it was a co-worker. It was a shocking moment, but we both now knew the other sucked cock, so I was invited in, and we sucked each other's cocks for almost an hour as we both provided two loads of cum to each other. It was a one-time thing as we never hooked up again.

 

It could be awkward knowing them but not knowing till you come together.

Thing being you both know the other sucks cocks and you both sought out the same in the same sites.

Shouldn't be awkward but I think it would be. Would you eyed him off otherwise as a potential hookup?

I'm pretty sure I would rather it be a stranger as long as I feel it's safe and clean. Knocking on a co workers door unknowingly after planning to hookup through cock shots could be awkward but then some might just role with it if they are seasoned cock suckers who have hooked up through online chat and are just there to suck cock not interested in the guy attached other than him getting you off and draining your load.
I replied to a personal through an online newspaper platform using email. Not sure if I was identified by my email but the response came back as it's discrete and that's why it's on there.
I want offered a meet or anything further and didn't follow up the email. Not sure if they had an idea who I was or not have a feeling they did and I might know who it was but could easily be wrong.

 

I'd never looked at co-workers or any guy thinking to myself, wow, I'd like to suck his cock. Out hook-up was made because we shared each other a photo of our cocks and wanted them. Yes, it was awkward, and I did ask him if he still wanted to go through with this to which he replied, hell, we both know that we suck cock so come on in and let's suck each other off. It was an enjoyable hour sucking each other as we did so in many positions too.

 

That's what you were there for. All's well that ends well.

 

I've had sex with guys local to me; I've had sex with more neighbors than I care to remember. Most have gone excitingly well; a few, eh, not so much but no one said that getting some dick from a guy is foolproof and without any risks at all. We like to say that you shouldn't shit where you eat which, technically, everyone who has a home does exactly that - but I digress. The exciting thing about this is that good dick can be found any- and everywhere and, yes, sometimes, right under your nose. If you're worried about what people are going to say about you, well, sure - getting with the guy next door is going to be a major problem and so will anyone who lives with a mile of you... but if you're wondering why you're not getting the dick you want and need, hmm, might be time to rethink some stuff and learn to be smarter about what you do.