was just wondering, my girlfriend says she cant orgasm and has never had an orgasm, but i think it is possable to make her have an orgasm...she is my first and only sex partner by the way, can someone explain what a female orgasm is? and a brief discription of how it feels and looks like? thanks
orgasm: The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals. Also called climax. well I dont know if it really looks like anything... maybe some girls might ejaculate but I dont think many do. it feels good...you would know if you had one..or she would
some girls don't have them untill they are all the way into their thrities don't trip over it if you care enough to be concerned about giving her one then i'm sure she's loving every minute of making love to you
Most women have their first orgasm through masturbation. Don't pressure her into it, but tell her it's the best way for her to learn what turns her on, for you and maybe future partners. Surely you know what your orgasms are like? I imagine us gals' are pretty similar in concept as well. how old are you guys, if you don't mind my asking? Because you may want to consider getting her a vibe, or letting her go shopping for one by herself... it can really help some women experience an orgasm.
The female orgasm is the greatest thing ever! Mine are like a wave over my entire body...some orgasms only last a few seconds while others last far longer but the thing is, you KNOW when you've had one. I totally recommend masturbation...if she is too nervous to get a vibrator, try a removable shower head or recommend she take a hot bath and take it slow. She may not orgasm her first time masturbating but she'll begin to know what gets her hot.
you'll/she'll know when she has an orgasm. an orgasm is one of the few times when you don't have very much control over the movements of your body, since they are going through spasms...hence...the orgasm. personally, when i orgasm, it feels like a rush of electricity, and power rushing through my body to every tip. and like what has already been said, some women don't orgasm till after child birth or beyond. it has to do alot with the amount of blood down there after she gets excited. and try brining in vibrators or masterbation, but if that doesn't work, bring in manual hand jobs for her during foreplay, if that is something that you dont' mind bringing into your sex. *some guys don't* rub her clitoris, since it is ultra sensitive, and with lube, she can reach an orgasm, or atleast i know that it works for me and some other people i know. well, good luck.
well i mean she says she had an orgasm but i doubt it cause she doesnt real twich n shit, liek u guys say
I think she would know better than you if she had actually achieved an orgasm. Not all gals twitch and shudder, and even the ones who do don't do it every single time. The first six months or so where I was able to achieve orgasm, they were silent and almsot motionless, except for some toe curling and the occasional back arching. Especially if she's still pretty new to orgasming, it's gonna take her a little while to find out exactly what her buttons are. She can guess at what will work, and it usually does... but eventually she'll figure out the precise things that turn her on, the fantasies that best lead her to orgasm.
This is another question I never had the nerve to ask my girlfriend or any past girlfriends. I always found it too sensitive of a subject to ask them what their orgasms look like. My girlfriend says that I always make her have orgasms. But since my ding-o-ling is already in her when she orgasms, I still don't know what it looks like. A question to all the women here. When women masterbate and have orgasms, are they watery and squirt out like pee, or are they more like a goo that just oozes out? And is it transparent or does it have some sort of a color to it?
some do some don't. Some women can ejaculate. Some get really wet, and the orgasm can push that moisture out. Some women (like me) don't have anything exit during orgasm, just shaking and moaning and tremblingly good.
yeah it's not like a male orgasm that just clearly bursts out and says a sloppy "hello, good evenin' to ya chap!" --- It's more like the twitches in the body
i would really like to help my girlfriend to orgasm with me. shes been masturbating since she was like 12. she gets herself to orgasm by grinding into pillows, my penis etc. but its all her. id like to do it, ya dig. she says my going down on her is awesome and she told me she just needs to relax more but i think i could be doing a better job. i try to let her enjoy the fore play for a long time, but that always ends in her demanding sex shorty. she comes like crazy so i dont know what i need to do. because i guess coming isnt a female orgasm?? any advice.