Do you ever fake orgasms?

once i tried but the pipe fixed on the syringe popped out and I made a mess with almond milk.

 

Your first paragraph I will completely agree with. And very thoughtful. And well put.

However, your last two sentences I must quibble with.

Actually, after many, many years of observing (see my screen name) the simple and plain truth is that the majority of women dress for other women's approval, and behave for other women's approval. Lest they risk expulsion from the group.

Only a few percent of women factor in their husband, boyfriend, or even other men in general into their dressing or behavior. They are slaves to
'current trends' as dictated by, ........other women. And bless those few who can think for themselves.

Now as to your last sentence. You, m'lady, are not qualified to speak for the majority of males. That sentence is completely bogus, and you have no idea of what you speak.

Otherwise, good posting.

 

I can orgasm very easily. Even multiple orgasms. For me, I can't get enough sex, weather it be from men or women. I even squirt. I am fortunate in that my husband understands my needs. Needs for other partners.

 

I used to always with my husband, but....

 

I'm with You Girl! My husband shares me with our friend!

 

Yes! I know exactly what you mean! I went through the first two years of our marriage without a Orgasm! Hubby would Cumm to fast and really wasn't very big!
He sensed this and introduced me to being Shared! That is what saved our marriage!
46 years and counting! Also still being Shared! You Gotta keep Going!

 

I think; were he to discover now, that you've faked it for so long, the trust between you will be gone forever.

 

I fake it with my Husband to make him Feel Good!
Besides he let's our friend take care of me!

 

Sometimes if I have made the wrong decision when I have been drunk and the guy just not have a clue what the is doing.

 

Interesting discussion this, I personally havent had an orgasm for years but i always tried to make sure my partner had one, it was always one of the chats that came along before sex at some point and i'd always ask if they had any particular kinks or what they enjoyed most, i just sort of brought it into the conversation. to be honest I've not had sex for a while now, something i thought would never happen, its not just a case of ' i cant get it up' as they used to say, I'm just not interested, maybe its because i've been ill with a number of problems I dont really know.
My wife is a few years older than me and like most females has certain insecurities, i suppose men do, we're just better at hiding them. In the begining she used to say it was her and that if i was to be approached by a younger more shapely woman i nher 20's or something i'd be at it straight away, but i told her i wouldnt, some part of me is just not functioning, i would go so far to say that if i was to walk into a room full of naked young females, not only would i not get an erection, i wouldnt be interested, its just the way it is. I bought her several sex toys but she wont use them she says she wants the real thing, i even told her to go have an affair if she wanted, she doesnt want that. I guess she is happy to remember the good times, lol. she used to cum really heavy and a lot of the time we were outdoors, she had a thing for forests, pants down bent over and away, it was something her ex would never do. If at the end of the day she ended up sitting in a pair of soaking knickers I knew i'd done my job. its nice to leave someone happy, these days all too often its all about me, people need to slow down take their time and enjoy it, because one day, like me you may find you've gone off it for some reason.

 

Over the years, I have faked lots of orgasms. I know men & their ego so I always am afraid of hurting their feelings.

 

:-(

 

Sure. I'm faking one right now.

 

I've had sex with more than 50 different women. A lot have not orgasmed during sex with me. Why? Probably because they are content with helping me get off or they don't tell what I need to do for them to get off. If my partner wants to fake orgasm that's on her. I follow what she tells me and if she is lacking in letting me know what to do to bring her off that's not my fault. I even ask as we go along as many of my partners stay silent or subdued while fucking. Faking is not a problem with me. Given my years of experience I pretty much know if she has faked the big O. But again that's on her as you are responsible for your own pleasure and if you aren't getting it let your partner know.

 

I think you need to be honest. This is clear. Well, about the reluctance to teach someone ... You can make a manual for guys and give it before sex)))

 

Introduce yourself! Welcome to HF!!

 

i try not to and dont get me wrong my god does it feel goood as all hell but sometimes i just cant and it hurts his pride its sucks

 

Checking what you mean: Do you mean you really enjoy an orgasm but you need to fake it sometimes, to save his pride?

 

yes

 

If my partner hasn't then I hope like all hell that she'd tell me so we could address the issue