I've never once considered bringing the subject up to an established friend. Being an established cocksucker, I value friendship over my desires, and I've had many friends I would have really enjoyed sucking off too. All of the married men I agreed to meet to provide oral services for became friends after I'd sucked them off having met through a personals ad. They were all recently met, I provided what they were in need of and because of my skilled services they wanted to return again, and again, and again. It was during those return performances that we became friends.
I'm in hotels all over the world all the time, hopefully we cross paths and you don't chicken out, I will look approachable! Lol
Usually I'm the one giving the blow job, but there have been several guys who after receiving became curious to try it themselves. My closest friend has brought guys over knowing that I give blow jobs, there have been times that I've been hanging with a friend and the subject of porn comes and pretty soon our cocks come out. Sometimes jerking off in front of each other is all that happens but the conversation can easily go to how long it's been since we had a blow job, then we're off to the races. Once that happens it can become a regular thing
Only in my early teens and with close friends. One was very concerned someone at school would find out. With each orgasm he lost all fear and loved it. He was willing to masturbate me but never tried oral.
I had one or two casual cock sucking friends many years ago. It cured my depression and feeling of enforced chastity and I absolutely love it. I need it as friendly interaction and mutual fun and relief, not a precursor to getting into each other's anus. If I can't get our marriage sex back on track, I think I will be looking for someone my age who needs to share his sexuality as I do.
I'm sure you are right. I have a few friends, who almost lean that way or send suttle hints. I try to reply to leave the door open, but I think most of them are still hung up or embarrased.
I've never given, or received, head from a friend. All of my encounters and there have been dozens over the years were strangers that I met through adult personal adverts or in porn cinemas. Most of these were married guys who were cheating on their wives. My wife knew about my activities but she had a "don't ask, don't tell" attitude toward it. Oh, and by the way, the best blowjobs I've ever had, by far, have been by men.
Yep, Magicalmoments, I have read before that men have a better orgasm when sucked off by a guy (or wanked by one) than when they get the same attention from a female. I have also read that some US universities researched and concluded that women who have sex with women have better orgasms from oral, than they do from men. I'd have thought all of that is common sense because men know how to get a man off (because they have played with their own cock since childhood) and similarly, women know how to play with a pussy. I think the 'secret' is for all of us to talk to our partners (opp sex) and have them teach us what works best for them. Most of my sex-life (when I have one), involves giving her oral because I get more of a buzz from giving pleasure than just getting my rocks off. Much more fulfilling and longer-lasting feelings as well as a better orgasm for me too, when I do that.
I agree on the best. I think the same way. I've always said that I think the same sex can truly out perform the others, due to the fact, who know exactly what feels right and doesn't. My wife is always willing to give BJ, but I usually pull out and go to other activities.
Love buds who want my load as a break from their wife/girlfriend's pussy. Hell, I do the same for them in return.