How do you really figure out who to approach because some guys could be offended and others would, oh, yes !!
Over the years I've serviced many married guys I met at pubs. Not always on the first meet, but over time conversations took place and the subject of sex with the wives would come up to find they are sexually frustrated. If he seems to me to be a nice guy, I'd lead the conversation towards getting a blowjob from a guy. More times than not it led to me sucking their cock in the parking lot. We'd exchange phone numbers and many times it led to me providing them a blowjob or two on a weekly basis. It was a huge turn on to me to be sucking a married guy's cock and hearing them say that I suck cock better than their wife.
And how do you lead the conversation to get that BJ? I wonder too, how many of them would suck you in return?
lol. I've only been on this site for a relatively short while but, in that time, I've noticed guys looking for and talking about sucking cock or mutual masturbation with a guy with the curiosity about how to start that conversation with a guy. And then I wonder, why we don't do that here, perhaps by PM, with guys who we know want to do it? Is that allowed in PMs? I'm always open to chat about sexual activities and seeing where it goes so I'm unlikely to avoid it here.
Im relatively new here also, not exactly sure on a answer for you , but im open to any discussion and more being a deprived sex long time married guy who would be open to try sucking or being sucked by another similar type guy
I've been without sex for years too and am quite frustrated and, probably as a consequence, I've looked through most types of adult porn, including lesbian seduction and some types of gay porn. An FB wanted to watch me and a guy wank and suck each other and cumkiss her with each others cum. And to cum on each other so she could lick it up. To persuade me, she would put on gay porn to try to get me interested and it did get me at least curious. Well, possibly because I was able to associate the playing with cock with the enjoyment of watching her masturbating beside me as we both watched it. So, currently, I watch some porn and watch guys wanking because it's quite nice to hear them (some of them) climax and see them spurt. And via other so-called dating sites, I've chatted with men and we've watched each other playing and I have chatted with women who have let me watch them masturbating and a couple of them have shown me how they do it - where they like to stroke and where and how they use their toys. They've watched me too but I think it was more because I asked them if they'd like to watch me because I had already watched them. Some continued to chat and share for a few weeks. Others stopped after we'd exchanged a video or had a video call. It makes complete sense to me....how can a guy learn enough about how to stimulate a woman if none helps them to learn. How can a guy get the most from his cock if he doesn't get the opportunity to watch the way other guys masturbate. And I would like to feel another guys cock to make him cum and to let him wank me. For me, as a sucking virgin, I would do that if it felt ok, in the moment. So I'm pigeon-hole agnostic. Neither gay nor bi. Hetero with a bunch of pent up emotion and a horny head. If someone gets off better by watching me or letting me watch them or doing it together and to each other; or if a female would like to teach me her ways of climaxing or have sex (if we get along well, first), I'm all eyes and ears. If distance isn't an obstacle, I'd happily meet up for real, if they were keen.
You took the words out of my mouth. !! And maybe a cock into it, ha, just throwing some humor in, yes, i would love to feel another cock, and im not gay or bi and never done it before, just curious to try
I consider myself straight and have always been interested in woman. My first experience with a male sucking mug of was when I was young. The second time was in college. He came home drunk and came into our dorm as I was showering. I don’t hear him come in and had been in the shower with a hard on. I had been teased by a new gal as I was dating and at 19 I had an erection all the time. I was trying to B see if I had enough to shave when he saw me standing there with a a hard-on. He stood in the bathroom doorway staring and praising my dick. He asked if he could touch it and I nodded. Next thing I knew he was on his knees sucking on my dick. It was so hot seeing his blonde head bobbing on my fatty. It was so intense I thought the head of my dick blew into his mouth. I was hooked on his blow jobs after that. Remember those days fondly (my dick still gets hard thinking about his bjs)
I had two mfm’s that led to my guy friend and I blowing each other. I had a fuckbuddy that was interested in a 3some with a friend of mine she had never met. We did it and had a dvp, my first,his first and hers as well. It felt incredible. He was over one night maybe a week later and she was supposed to come to my place for the night. She had car trouble or something. We were a little wound up and put video in the vcr, soft porn I’d call it. He couldn’t take it, he asked if he could see my dick again and boom.
I love giving head - so, if a friend felt OK about it, I'd be glad to help a guy out. Not quite sure how one puts that out there to friends - guess if they know, then it's up to them to suggest it - don't you think? I wouldn't want any friend to feel awkward about it. To me, I guess I must look at things differently, but it would be a form of intimacy that does not get confused with romantic feelings, if it were to happen.