Really, it depends on the whole situation: the woman saying this is most important - are you "in love" with her, how secure are you about her/how interested in her are you? It also depends on what is said, and how. What would be most important to me would be the energy we share and the energy behind the words. What is the vibe like? Some times it's nice to play games.
Nah, it has always seamed fake and kinda stupid to me. Not that regular talking can't be dirty and a turn on, but that BS porn star crap, just seems dumb
It definately depends on the situation. If your making love the dirty talk waits, otherwise the more dirty talk the better. There is nothing like a girl whispering dirty things into your ear. -Phil
My hubby likes the dirty-talking when we're being more rough, although I admit that I feel like an ass talking that way. The words seem foreign coming out of my mouth, but hey, he seems to dig it, and I love seeing him enjoy himself, so what the heck. I probably blush every shade of pink to red, but oh well. We definitely don't talk that way when we're making love. That's different. Peace.
not particularly. I'm not saying I like sex to be quiet, but when it gets over the top loud and raunchy like a porno film, I don't care for that. It just doesn't feel right to me when it gets like that and I lose concentration - almost like a distraction of sorts.
i like it when its gettin rough.. no time else.. and i wouldnt say it to anyone but my boyfriend... if some random guy was all horny and talking to me like that... i'd be grossed out.. that talk is ONLY for words you say to a lover.. words of lust..
if you like it - tell me! Its called being expressive, and those who say what they like GET what they like most of the time. Whether its dirty or not isnt the point, letting your lover know what you like is! Cant say I ever got turned off by it being too dirty tho.
My husband and I were having this conversation last night. Bill and I don't talk "dirty" to each other. It doesn't feel right for us. We have other ways of communicating that is a much more intimate turn on.