Why do you choose top or bottom?

Why do have to choose? Can't you do both?

 

I agree.

 

For me it seems bottom choose me as well. I like the sensation of a cock inside me, not rough and demeaning, I want it to be more like love making. I do feel submissive when I am being topped and I do like that. Aside from sex with guys I’m not normally submissive, Im a very masculine man. I do like oral sex with guys both ways and enjoy it equally both ways.

 

I want to try both but mostly wanting to bottom because I want to know how it feels.

Not wanting to be submissive just enjoy my ass getting the attention. I'm happy for a guy to use my ass to get a load off, I want to feel it. So long as it's consensual and not rough or abusive I would take it up the ass and let him get off.

Would try other stuff too given the chance

 

I agree with you. I want to try both. It’s all about pleasure…for both parties involved.

 

Wish we could get together, I would like to try mutual oral too.

 

Me too!!

 

If the opportunity ever arises, I’m taking bottom. If I want to fuck an ass that is what my wife is for. I have no interest in the guys hairy butt hole. My only interest would be having a real cock in my ass, as much as I love being pegged, the real thing must feel so much better.

 

Being smaller and tight, it seemed natural for me assume the role of bottom. I had wondered what it would be like to receive what I had been dishing out all those years. It turned out I really enjoy being the little submissive partner to a larger man and play it up as much as I can. I do enjoy sucking cock and the feeling of being penetrated is epic. Then, there's a euphoric feeling when I hear him groan as he releases his load deep inside me. I don't let him pull out until I feel I've sqeezed every drop out of him.

 

I just like to suck. Is that a top or a bottom?

 

That's a Cocksucker I think.

 

Being smaller, please explain?

Are you a smaller man or referring to a small cock.

I would let a guy with a little cock fuck me.

As for being tighter that benefits the guy fucking you, might be a problem if he has a big cock.

Just cause your tighter doesn't mean you should not fuck someone to get a load away.

What do bottoms do to get off,

 

I'm smaller in stature. I'm 5'6" / 145lb and the guys I've been with are 5'10 and taller. And, the degree of tightness does feel good for the guy doing me, but I also benefit from the stretching and pressure I feel with his cock thrusting back and forth inside me. It feels incredible and drives me wild. I'll suck his cock afterwards while he strokes me if I haven't cum yet. It's always a win for us both.

 

First off, I'm versatile but like it in my ass moreso than fucking someone. My experience is that there are more bottoms than tops. Secondly, when with a guy that is a bottom as well that is when the dildos come into play. Along with a blowjob and jacking it works very well.

 

On occasion I get off just from being fucked, but mostly it's a jackoff thing

 

Being a bottom can also mean prefer to suck and please a cock, not so much be sucked

 

It's called flip fucking

 

Well, I like to be sucked as well. Just not into anal, either giving or receiving.

 

That's what I find confusing. I would have thought even as a bottom you would need your cock pleased.

I think I would let a guy fuck me for my pleasure and his. But I need to use my cock too so I would like to be sucked off. I'd fuck a guy in the ass to make things fair depending what he likes but I'm not going to just be there to worship his cock when I need to use mine.

Happy to experience being fucked and mutual oral but could not be a total bottom.