MFM or FMF...which is more common?

Women are stronger and in control of more parts of society. With that the MFM has become more common. Used to be that an MFM was a male driven thing and its more and more a female driven thing.

 

I was the one that suggested MFM to my wife. She agreed and we did it......a few times (same guy). I guess that put her in control.

 

For obvious reasons a female engaged in anything with 2 men can be intimidating. She needs to be confident she is safe, first and foremost. When she is confident that she is calling the shots and confident that it wont get out of her control, a lot more women find themselves interested

 

My wife was very comfortable in our MFMs because our third was a close long time friend. No pesky condoms! She loved the attention! I’ve wanted to try FMF with her but that would never happen. We were so close to swapping with a couple we met, but wife said she didn’t think she could handle seeing me with another woman. DAMNIT!

 

All have to be comfortable. The guy we had our first mfm, was a bull and had been with lots of other couples. We talked about sexual things, Even the first time I was a bit nervous, but when play started I was all for it. We had a couple of other guys, and things just never clicked. The couples I joined varied, mostly hippie friends. Some times the guy would watch tv and could care less what was going on. The woman never got the full benefit of 2 men at the same time.

The ffm threesomes were about the same way. One of the girls said she never felt comfortable fucking me in front of my girlfriend. But when I got her alone it was a different story.

 

I've been in both - FMF and MFM. I can't say I disliked either or ever preferred one over the other. I will say that it's easier finding another male to participate than another female. Most men I know are open to about any sexual opportunity that comes (cums?) their way. Women tend to be a little pickier.

Just my opinion of course.

 

Same with us , I was the one that planted the seed so to speak , except the fact that we started with a swap . Shortly thereafter the opportunity came up for she , our male friend and I to have our first MFM . Because of how it all started it wasn't a huge jump into the FMF . We're still all friends but have moved on from those party days .

As you said.....DAMNIT

 

I almost had a MMM threesome once. One of them chickened out, so we had sex just the two of us.

 

I think FMF is more common overall.

 

Done fmf and mmm.

 

But what's good good for the goose is good for the gander isn't it ? Fair's fair .

 

Totally agree.

 

Not sure which is more common but my gf loves MFM but says she would be too jealous if another girl was involved instead. This suits me as MFM has always seemed more exciting and somehow more of the ultimate in sex which is a man ejaculaing into a women who is also cumming. FMF seems to dilute this while two men seem to amplify it.

 

My wife felt the same thing. We had thought about swapping with another couple that we met the wife said that she couldn’t handle knowing that I was with this other woman. And this other woman was hot! But the wife had no problems with another man joining us. Whatever happened to what’s good for the goose is good for the gander? Yes our threesomes were hot but I still feel cheated that she had the extra and I didn’t.

 

BINGO.

 

My older FWB adores being called a slut. Call her a whore and you'll find yourself over the edge of her balcony. Call her a slut and she'll give you a wide smile. Call her a good slut and she's yours. That's not just me. Ask all her men. BTW....I would be hard pressed to find a better slut and she deserves the praise....

 

While entertaining two women may be more taxing on you it might be a surprise you how long you could last with one on your face and one bouncing on your cock . I know I was .
The only issue I had was keeping them going while I recuperated , good thing I have a tongue ! With the MFM there are no problems keeping that excitement , and huge smile on her face , the entire night .

So if the opportunity arises don't be hesitant .

 

For me it's MFM

 

My first choice too but I'm glad to have sampled FMF as well .

 

I’ve been lucky enough to have two FMF sessions in my life; about 20 years apart; once with a lesbian couple that liked to add a bit of duck every now and then and the other was a gf that when we got to talking about “bucket list” items it was on hers. I let her know I was willing to TOFTT and the next night she brought her best friend over.
My present hope is a MFM with my wife; she has had few sexual partners in her life ; her older sister was a slut and mom convinced my wife to be the opposite. I’d love for her to open up and add just a few more notches on the bed post. The bed post on my side has been whittled down to a toothpick, hers still looks factory fresh!!!