Please help, I'm a hipforums user under another name and I have a stupid yet really heavy problem that I'm struggling with. I had a nice role in a play which I thought was too good to be true and then I was at the hospital during one of the rehearsals because my mother hurt herself and so they decided to give my part to another girl because she stood in for me and they liked her way of acting better and just assumed I would take her part (which is really lame and stupid and is in the last scene out of like 15 and is small and ... ) Well, I ended up taking her part. I just naturally tend to go there less often now and lately everyone was saying shit about me. I fell sick that week but I had to sing at a show so I was trying not to use my voice too much during that scene... The play director (head of the english department at the school) said I made it all up and he mocked me about it and said I was a diva meanwhile everyone is saying I am annoying... The stupid part is that I just heard this off a friend but I really trust him and know he would not make it up. Another stupid thing is well- I got some really nice boots that are similar to the girl who has my old part... but I'm just afraid to wear them because with jeans, they have to be tucked into the boot and it looks alot like the way she wears them... I don't want people to talk about me and say more crap like I copy her or something... Well if you have taken the time to read my useless problem, thanks... But if you could be so kind as to tell me what you would do- would you just quit or suck it up and continue for a few more weeks till the play shows?
that is sooooooo sweet!! the fact that ya can overcome yer alter ego and come in under a pseudo name an ask us that ya never would under yer other name for advice.. thats soooo sweet!! honest!! i hope someone whom yer embarressed to take advice from in yer other name can give ya some in this one...
do whatever you want and dont worry about what anyone else will say about you coz it doesn't really matter. those peoples opinions mean nothing, dont let them make you feel bad
this sounds pretty shitty, but i'm judging from the boots and jeans portion of this post that this is lynsey?
sounds like you have an insecurity problem going on. wear your ugz (SP) tuck your jeans in em, (its what is "in" at the moment anyways) as for your part in the play, there goes the saying "you snooze, you lose" its the same for my daughter and her vball team, you dont show up, you lose your position.
it's why i've never bothered with a psuedonym/alias. i'm always my slightly to incredibly bitchy, rude, and marginally amusing self. lysney is obsessed with clothing. anyway, go do your part in the play.
hahahhaa why would someone create an alias and write about this?? it sounds childish, and something a highschooler would worry about........
Go do your part in the play. Don't be such a diva, every part of a play is important.......how good would a movie be if there were only 2 stars on an empty set? No supporting actors and no extras? I say suck it up and be big about it.
i have a friend who is called magdola i have seen a million people with that boot thing style. it wouldnt be fair if they said you were copying her because many girls do that-well atleast the ones i know. as for the play, i think you should just suck it up and give them what you asked to. but if they give you alot of shit then maybe you should just leave.
lol that was so not me. I am to shy to ever be in a play and I would never wear the combination of boots and jeans together...