I have trouble ...achieving orgasm. Its not that I can't get one, I just can't go through with it! I get close within one minute (with vaginal muscle clenching/spasms, moaning, all the good stuff), but I've been masturbating for four years and still can't go through with it because it's too powerful. Any advice?
i would suggest you slowing down a bit, and start again slowly... but not quitting. and trying to just relax and let it go.... it takes time though. hope that helped a little bit
concentrate on the journey, not the endpoint. Set aside an hour by yourself to fool around. Try to make yourself last at least half an hour before you get to that quivering, shaking, almost-orgasming point.
Yeah, if you are having trouble getting to the end (because it is to intense, realy? wow!) Just enjoy the way there, the hour to your self may seem like a long time, espicialy if you are not that comfortable with yourself but eventualy you will be able to just let it happen!
hey...ok, why didn't you just call me about this eh? haha, ok...your using your vibrator right? try manual. i have the same kind of problems when i masterbate, it just gets too powerful, but i go through with it. try sitting up like your riding someone when you masterbate, then that way when you go through with the "powerful" orgasms, its going more through the movement, and you aren't restricted as much as when you are when you are laying down. thats just me though.
