Hey........thats what I was going to say, so instead I'll second that point, any time I ignored my gut feeling, I paid for it. Follow your heart. Don't take life too seriously, no one gets out alive. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Nobody on their deathbed ever says, "I wish I had spent more time at work." Love, be love, you are love. Be happy, don't let others take that away from you. Beer, the cause of, and solution to, all lifes problems. Homer simpson.
Oh yeah, A Gandhi quote. "whatever you do in life may seem insignificant, but it is very important that you do it anyway." Love yourself, and love all of creation, unconditionally Forgiveness of others is not so hard, but forgiving yourself can be, so go easy on yourself.... This is not a dress rehearsal. Life..........what a glorious gift, treasure it, warts and all.
Yeah...good one. Be gracious in defeat, and be modest in victory. Praise the person, criticize the deed. Don't try to control anyone but yourself, that is hard enough itself. No rain makes a desert. without the valleys, there would be no mountaintops. You are special, no one else could ever replace you.