Alright...I'm new to this whole "liking the same sex" thing. Our school Valentine's dance was last Friday. This girl named Elizabeth, who I had met at our school Showcase a couple weeks earlier, was there. We hung out the whole time and during "Your Body's A Wonderland" by John Mayer (my favorite slow song) I asked her to dance. At first, it was just for fun because all the guys at my school are douchebags. But, during the middle of the song I realized 'hey, i really like this girl.' I think she felt the same way because the rest of the night she kept hugging me and holding my hand and playing with my hair (she hadn't done that before) and before we left she gave me a hug and whispered in my ear "I'll become a lesbian for you." I don't know if she was kidding or not. But, I can't stop thinking about her. She is so...incredible. Anyways...my point is: How do I find out if she likes me the same way? I don't want to come on too strong or anything. Should I just hold myself back and wait for it to unravel or not? What do ya'll think?
Well, I'm no girl or gay or anything, but I'd say, if you like her, and she seems to like you (since she'll become a lesbian for you, if you want), then go for it. I mean, *if you want,* she'll be a lesbian for you. Since you apparently do want that, then just let her know. =) Edit: And if she turns out to be joking, then laugh it up with her. =P
im a guy and if a girl started to hold my hand and play with my hair i would automatically assume theres some type of attraction either that or she lost a bet with someone else:&
she was probably serious about her feeling but at that age, it's hard to really express them. Go slow with her. Let her do things at her pace. Good luck!
were you drinking that night? cos if you were, probably she might have felt less inhibited by the alcohol...you never know...been there, done that! BUT...if you think there might be a possibility, go for it! and if you are wrong about her being into you, well, just laugh it off with her.... but hey! chicks rock! let me the first one to tell you that *hee hee*
Ohhh.. that's a really sweet story! Yeah, it sounds like she's interested in you.. don't feel the need to put a label on it right away..just flirt a little.. ask her to go to a movie or whatever and joke that it's a 'date'.. see if she is just joking or maybe kinda new to this thing, like you are. Good luck with everything!
Elizabeth is in a different grade than me, but we've been sitting together at lunch and walking across the quad together all week. Her friend called this kid a faggot, and I guess Elizabeth saw a hurt look on my face or something and said "She doesn't mean to hurt you." I have no idea how she knows I'm not straight, but somehow she knows. And she called me "her rachel" the other day, lol. Just thought I'd share that. I'll keep ya'll posted on my little crush. Hehe!
