Never liked them and rarely used them. Ended up at 20 getting a girlfriend pregnant. We got married, had 2 children and the marriage lasted for 18 years. After our second child was born I got a vasectomy. I’ve never used one since. I’m bi and a few years ago a fellow wanted to wear a condom while I sucked his cock. I declined to give him the blowjob.
I agree with the title of this discussion "Condoms Suck" however this leads me on to my own experience and for this belated confession! years ago when I was in my rampant "fuck anyone stage**" I had 5 yes 5 girls pregnant at one time! This is the first time I have shared this with others and I do realise the hurt and disruption I have caused because of my stupid refusal to wear a condom. Unfortunately for me it was at a time when "The pill" was not available for unmarried women and widespread fucking was the norm amongst 20 to 30 year olds wishing to appreciate the freedom that our parents did not have! In the swinging 60's. Plus I was always being referred to, at the time, as a good stand-in to Gregory Peck, so I was never short of willing girlfriends. This Gregory Peck reference thing used to annoy the hell out of me because in reality he was 10 years older than me! but I was never short of a girlfriend and my work took me around the country so I was always on the move and in need of sex. ( I have never been a fan of wanking, I liked the real thing) with the opposite sex and it was readily available at the time. This was in Southern England. (however one of the girls was a Yank and another a real Swedish beauty, I wanted to marry her but she wanted to go to University in Sweden - bugger) When I learn't I had got one of my sisters best friends pregnant, this would be the 4th I panicked and found a job in Northern Ireland. This involved taking a medical at my new place of work, the company nurse that did most of the testing suggested that she show me around town, she became the 5th. I had arranged and paid for three abortions, which included the nurse, a horrible backstreet opp. in Belfast and highly illegal at the time. One girl high-tailed it to Canada from whence I lost track of her. And one girl had her baby adopted by a relation in the midlands. The nurse who again became pregnant and was 4 months pregnant, when we married. The marriage lasted two more children and six years in total. An addition to the list was to come years later when a young 21 lad presented himself to my mothers door with the words "Hello Granny I am your son's son - she fainted on the spot. I got to hear of it by letter from my mother who said it's no good denying it, he is the spiting image of you at that age. I replied to my mother "I can't promise you won't experience another similar visit from the past, if it worries you move house." She died in 2004. I have been living in New Zealand since 1980. To complete the story I have been married three times to three beautiful women all different but equal in their own right. I also have many children & grandchildren, I hope the Mum's enjoyed the journey too, all thanks to my diss-like of Condoms! ** "fuck anyone stage" is not strictly true as I only escorted girls/women who looked great, had tons of personality, brains and a huge sexual appetite to go with it.
Wearing condoms really don’t bother me, wife was always on the pill but stopped a few years ago and I started using condoms. She doesn’t feel any difference she says and by the time she lubes up I have it on
Normally, I agree, but prostitutes are great at this trick with putting a condom on with their mouths. Most are so good you don't even feel them doing it. When did that become a norm, regardless, it's pretty hot.
While the idea of ejaculating in a woman’s mouth is a big turn on I also appreciated the condoms for two reasons. First was the safety and later I realized it reduced the highly extreme sensitivity during ejaculation, it allowed me to tolerate and truly enjoy the continued oral stimulation. It actually gave me a better experience. Except with a few of my conquests who were so good doing it right and I was able to be pleasured post orgasm but condoms never bothered me except the times I needed the direct contact like titfucks to be able to cum
Should be the other way around from a health point of view. Raw anal is a recipe for infection and stds.
"...belated confession..." Good God, man! But that probably felt good to 'fess up to all that. If ever there were 'lessons to be learned' they are there.
Raw anal as you call it is absolutely a recipe for infections. I only had one time i had sex with a guy without a condom. I gave him a good time and he gave me a STI
Yes definitely stops you getting any STDs etc but it does take away the feeling too. My girl and I tried the other day with and without a condom, the only reason I had them was so we could try having sex with my urethral sound inside me. It just took all the feeling away from my perspective. I ended up ripping it off and stuffing my cock back inside her, felt so much better with no latex. My girl has polycystic ovaries and cant get pregnant which is a bonus.
If you have a steady partner and another form of contraception , then there isnt the same need provided of course neither partners play around . STDs can be nasty and if you factor the embarrasment of getting it treated then Condoms are useful .
I've heard recently about something called 'Ziptips'. Apparently they are thin and just cover the head with a pouch, and feel natural. Am told much better than standard type. Only drawback is you first wipe a small amount of sticky liquid behind the head then put it on so it won't come off. Washes off easily later. One guy says they're great and his wife, who doesn't like semen in her mouth, can now give him great head. FWIW.
"...so we could try having sex with my urethral sound inside me...." I've assisted with a few of those dilations, and it ain't fun at all for the recipient. How the hell did you pull that off? Oh, wait, maybe have been some sort of soft, smaller one, eh?