Yeah, it's fun exciting and a new piece of ass. But ask yourself......is it worth half of your savings, 401K, your house? As my divorce lawyer said........it would have been cheaper to hire a cook, maid, and hooker. Eaten better, had a cleaner house, and better sex.
Allot of guys had affairs when your wife decides to throw you out with a restraining order with false information.
I think a lot of married folks (male and female) have had extramarital sex. Whether an affair or a one time thing.
Your thinking is correct. Over half of all marriages have had an affair involved with one or the other partner. Some surveys show that as high as 70% of the respondents reported having extramarital sex at one point in the marriage.
I screwed around on my first wife. Got involved with her when I was inexperienced, and really had no idea how relationships or intimacy worked. She was rather non-sexual. So when I got curious about sexual things in my 20s, it was easier to find someone else than bring that stuff up with her. I had some fun, but ultimately I'm not proud of what I did back then. That marriage ended 17 years ago. I would never screw around on my current wife. I have matured a lot, and know how to get my needs and desires fulfilled within my marriage. That's so much easier anyway than trying to carry on with multiple women.
When your wife says for month's. If you want sex you had better hurry as I took a sleeping pill. Then the girl down the street has some time. <snicker>
Three attached or married women. Looking on the Internet for intimate encounters Women not having anything at home
I did while married to the 1st wife x2 married the 2nd one but now sex has dried up so its hard not to go out and find some pleasure.... I have needs dammit! And no i haven't yet with the 2nd marriage but like i said its hard not thinking about it.
In short no I am more than happy with my relationship and would never consider sex outside of this .However I am a warm red blooded male and I don't go around with blinkers on.So yes I do notice very good looking people and often give compliments and receive many as well I also flirt as well and enjoy it. But that is as far as it goes for me .With me bring a former Relationship Counsellor as well it would be hypocritical of me if I thought differently. Great thread subject .
I went to see my doctor a few years ago and he was out of the office on a emergency. His new nurse and I were in one of the rooms talking. I told her that I had a small spot on one of my balls and she told me to drop my pants and lay on the table. She said it was nothing to worry about. I got an erection about talking about sex and the mess it makes. I told her that most of the time nothing runs out of my wife after sex. She had a dress on with no pants. The next I knew she had me inside of her. I said I have to be on top. She rolled over and I kept going for a long time. She said we had better finish. I dropped it in her. She continued the waiting and nothing ran out of her and she kept checking. I told her that I came in a spare room up there. Never saw her again.
20 years ago there was a girl in one of the offices I do business with that looked like fun . So we agreed to try it once , it was so much fun we kept it going till last year when her husband came close to finding out . We became best friends and tried almost everything sexual you can think of . That’s what made it fun and exciting.
Most of the first women I had sexual relations with were either married or with other men. The husbands that knew all made a point to urge me to pay it forward by having my wife sleep with other men once I finally meet and marry my wife
I have been in one for about 6 years. It was extremely hot and heavy for the first 4 years as he lived next door. Then I moved and got a new job. Now it’s an every now and then kinda thing