What do you want to do?

Another aspect that makes some people nervous is being naked in front of someone whilst they are fully clothed . Thats easily remedied though by the other person watching the display in their undies .Sometimes a bit of alcohol can ease any tension as well .

I would try and find out what the objection is or perhaps you perform in front of her and maybe she will reciprocate at a later date.

The hardest bit I found is the timing of the chosen music and wearing enough clothes so that you finish when the music finishes . A few practice runs help

 

I really can’t think of a thing I couldn’t/wouldn’t ask my wife to do sexually. This doesn’t mean she’s all in for doing it though. We are a senior couple, married many years. We talk about sex every day. No sex subject is taboo. This our way of staying sexed up. We have a open relationship.

 

There is much I haven't done yet.... but as long as the clothes came off, hot kissing and touching, amazing oral and sex was orgasmic and had a happy ending... well that's good enough for me. I don't need all the extra extra stuff that's out there.

 

"What is something you want to do but are afraid to ask your partner? Or something you have asked for and they have turned you down?"

I'm not afraid to ask her anything. We've talked openly about nearly every subject matter that I can think of.

We've done a lot of things to/with each other. I have talked to her about doing MFM and MFF, but those are a hard no for her. No wiggle room. She fantasizes about things like that, and even being the center of a gangbang, but said it's only fantasy and she would never do any of it.

The MFM and MFF she has obviously turned down. Everything else we have done together. There isn't much left to explore, just to do more of it!

 

Haha there are not many things I haven’t done

 

I just want to get laid lol

 

And always try to have a third in the mix

 

I would like my wife and I to have another man join us in a three way. I’d like to see another man fuck my wife and I’d like my wife to watch me suck another mans cock and swallow. She has made it clear she’s not interested in either though I’ve never fully broached the subject. I’ve hinted at it a few times and she has said she has always been faithful and not interested in any form of extra marital sex.

 

Threesome - FFM - Unfortunately she said she'd be too jealous in that scenario. Well - my ex that is - suppose that it's still possible going forward. Other than that though - she was highly open to anything and God damn did we do a lot. Facials, swallowing, anal, bondage, blowjob in my car, even fucked in the car once...Good times there! But yeah - gotta try a threesome at some point!

 

I've done that. It's fun as hell with one on your face and the other on your lap...but it's a lot of work!