I’m in my 70s and the first few women I had sex with all sported full bush. I think this shaped my future sexual preferences as I always associate pussy with full bush. I have had several partners with shaven genitalia and while I find all pussy lovely I prefer a pretty bush.
I prefer everything naturally, full bush shows a realistic coverage of pussy, so you are more interested to see what is under the bush?
Guess because of my age I always loved a natural look for women and myself. Trimming if it gets unruly but never felt an adult without pubic hair was a good look. I grew up in the time of porn with the “stars” sporting natural bushes ( men and women). From a strictly functional perspective paying someone to denude seems like a frivolous use of money and doing it myself a poor use of time I could be making love or sitting outside watching the sunrise. I know I’m a dinosaur but even us geezers have a few valid opinions. Or as the old R&B song goes, “different strokes for different folks”.
I'm 37 but when I was younger I found a book about sexuality in my parents bookcase. Needless to say, as a young teen I was heavily interested and when my parents were away from home I quite often looked in the book. It was published in the early 70s and it gave me an idea about how an adult woman should look like. When I was around the age of 18, it was already common that women did shave or at least trim. When I met my current girlfriend, who is a few years younger than me, she was fully shaved as well. It was incredibly smooth, it looked great, but I still had the feeling I was missing something. I convinced her to let it grow. It took some time for her to get used to it, there have been times she frequently shaved or trimmed, but now years later she keeps a full bush. She doesn't even trim. Yes, as you said, it is a little unruly, but in fact I like that and she doesn't mind it. I just love it that she doesn't shave anymore.
The wild nature is so beautiful, so the full bush is much better and sexy than the shaved ones. A full bush boosts your curiosity to see what is under the bush, even you know what is under the bush, but you are crazy to found it.
I agree. Although a shaved pussy can be sexy. It looks very neat and maintained, and when you're giving oral sex and everything is soft and smooth it's an amazing feeling as well. But the thing is that I get bored quickly of a shaved pussy, while a hairy pussy stays interesting. I feel very grateful that my girlfriend is willing to keep her pussy hairy. For women of her age, in the early 30s, that's pretty uncommon. Almost all women her age shave or at least trim their pussies, but she keeps a big untrimmed bush. She is lucky that she isn't overly hairy, so without any trimming it just fits in her swimwear. So no reason for her to trim. But when she wears sexy lingerie, like a thong, of course it doesn't cover everything.
In the late 60s when the hippie movement was in full swing, I realized that I was strongly attracted to braless hippie chicks with pubic and armpit hair. If noting else it was a symbolic gesture against women having to live up to men's desires and society's expectations. They were much freer in their lives that shaved women in high heels. One thing I really enjoy about hairy pits and pussies is the aroma they develop. The pheromones are more intense and my body would respond to it. The first time I had sex with a woman who shaved her pubes, it was exciting licking a bare pussy, but I missed the pleasant scent. My first night with her was fun but the stubble a couple of days after she'd shaved was irritating. All in all, I'm still much more turned on by a beautiful bush than shaved pubes. (Yeah, I'm still an old hippie.)
60 and 57 We are a study in contrasts. She has a full bush but shaves her pits/legs. I am completely shaven shaft and balls, but natural everywhere else.
My girlfriend and I are more than twenty years younger than both of you, but it's a similar situation here. I shave all my pubic hair, while my girlfriend keeps a full bush. We both keep the style the significant other prefers. I like the contrast of my shaved genitalia and her big hairy bush.