nothing wrong with having low numbers it doesn’t mean your sexually inexperienced or anything it just means you have love with another person
I'm at 30. Been with my wife for over 30 years, so I am much lower than if I had been single. My wife is at 7 (all prior to our marriage). My ex-wife is at about 20 (all but me after our divorce). She lost count along the way and isn't sure. I was keeping up with them for her, but then the journal I was keeping went missing. I told her I was sorry her sexual past was lost to posterity, but she said, "That's OK, many of them weren't worth remembering, anyway." She fucked on the first date, so there were a lot of one night stands. Usually, she would only tell me about the one night stands if there was something unusual about the date. If her date had been well endowed, she would gleefully tell me about him (she was a size queen). I also heard about the guys who were exceptionally small. She wouldn't go out with them again. Or if he had a quick trigger and came within a few minutes of penetration, she would bemoan his lack of stamina. She wouldn't go out with them again, either. Another reason she would limit it to one date is if the chemistry just wasn't there. She would have sex with him, even in the absence of chemistry, but only that one time. So, her many one night stands were partially on her, and not just because the guys got what they wanted and were finished with her. This one is Jean in the Exhibitionist Women thread and my blog.
As i previously posted here I've fucked about 66 women and by now about 800 guys have fucked me, not to mention cocks I have sucked. Since I started PrEP almost three years ago I have kept a simple record for purposes of three monthly std checks and I have been averaging about 250 guys a year which equates to around 5 sessions a week ...but of course some were couples, some were groups. In reality, and my ideal, is that I have sex around three times a week on average: keeps me on an even keel! And this has been in many different countries and different nationalities ......sex is also a way to make contacts and meet interesting people from all different sectors and social backgrounds....sex ..a common denominator ....haha. So nice to have a relaxed fuck session with maybe a drink and some weed, life is for living and enjoying to my mind. And as a single guy semi-retired why not... it's one of my hobbies and good for the psyche. Simon
Only a few women before marriage, 30 years with my wife and a few guys since we split. I don't like the risks of many sex partners. I'm happy with just a couple of FBs who I can have fun with.
I have had 6 and my wife has had 5. That’s about to change. We recently decide to open our marriage up to others.
If we are referring to actual intercourse. Something like 15 women and 3 men. If we are counting oral only encounters, then more like 25 men
All kinds of sex? We could probably start a thread around the exact definition of sex. But, if it's all types of activity where the goal is to get your partner(s) off, then I would say over 100. That includes oral and manual sex, both giving and receiving.
Upon review it falls between 30 and 40 . Hard to be positive as I wasn't aware there was going to be a quiz later .
Before I typed this, like Python, I stopped to think. In my mid-thirties I'd started recollecting and began a list of ladies names. Later in life I thought that was silly and pitched it. If I had to give it a number now, it'd be about 60+ ladies. Remember, I started in the late sixties when things were more ....exploratory. So from 17 to 39, when I married, there were flurries of activity, pollinating flowers. But then some long periods of drought when I didn't have even female friends. Such is life. Since marriage, nah. Got close several times but didn't work out. For my wife, the number is 2. Even at age 27 she was still virginal and hadn't even 'made-out' with guys (long story). But then met a guy who de-virginalized her, and for the next two years she let him fuck her 3x week, by our count, about 240-260 times. So that may count as 'experience'. Later met me, married, and the rest is history.