Like your spank. Just for the record it was her request. And yes I did enjoy it, a different way to experience how she feels there,, but it also wasn't a powerful slap.
For myself a very light and quick nipple pinch gets my attention. My body will react and become more sensitive to other stimulation if this is done once or twice but no more. I feel the pinch all the way to my cock but if continued numbness will set in and that is a turn off. A small bite with the teeth gives me the same reaction. Once I have moved to intercourse fingernail scratching of my back while in missionary can increase the excitement my body is receiving which sends me to orgasm quicker. Otherwise no additional pain will do anything for me.
Most of the time I react similarly and just recently figured out for myself that pain works best at the beginning but shuts me down after I'm going. But for my gf, she lives it throughout, a new experience for me, and I'm surprised how much I enjoy it, part it's how it feel to my hand, but mostly her reaction, and I'm still analyzing what it's all about.
The rougher the better for me. It gets pretty rough sometimes, everywhere. I’ve pinched my nipples hard while giving him a show before too. He does hold my tit in his palm and slaps my nipples hard. It gets my juices flowing pretty quick. And he slaps my pussy a lot. I’ve tried to get away from it before but he comes after me if I do. It’s never violent or anything like that. It’s mutual and I want it. I don’t slap him though. I’m 100% submissive.
My gf is mostly dominant, she tells to slap her breast and pussy, it's surprising to hear her coo like I'm licking her instead of yelling ouch. When it comes to spanking my ass, I don't get a choice.
My wife enjoys spanking, it's the mix of pleasure and pain. I've spanked her tits, ass and pussy, she really gets off on pussy spanking. I've watched her self spanking her pussy with a wooden spoon to a massive orgasm.
I've never really been into it. At least not the breast slapping part. But I have a friend who shows off a video of herself sucking a friend and he slaps her face and her tits and you can see her squirm more and more as he does it. She gets wet talking about it so I guess we're all different. I do like to spank a bare ass and I love girls who get moist as they get a red bum. Breasts....nah....
I'm not into slapping or being slapped, however, a girlfriend years ago after sex, asked if she could play wit my cock and slap it around. As long as she didn't get too rough I was okay with it. I got a hard on, she began to gently slap my buns and cock and legs. I realised I was going to cum, from being slapped, it bothered me a little but I let it happen. When it comes to sex, letting it happen and exploring are always the best idea. You might discover something you never thought you were into.
My last girlfriend had only one kink, she liked her breasts treated roughly during sex, she got off one it. Slapping , pinching the nipples, biting her nipples, sqweezing her breasts really hard. I was not use to treating a women in that way but I ajusted, lol