Help, relationship advice...

Ok here it is, i'll skip details and just point out what matters.


I've fallen complately for a girl, she's 15 i'm 18. We met a few months ago and have spent the last week seeing eachother every night. She's the most amazing girl in the world and we were kissing all Sat night and she feels just as strongly as I do. Here are the problems however..
She has a boyfriend
I have a girlfriend
We're both willing to break up with them but not sure if we should as we live at least an hour and a half apart.
Sat night was the last night we are going to see eachother unless we plan to ourselves.
Neither of us know what to do, and im curious if u think the age gap is too much (she's 16 real soon).
So yeah, opinions, advice whatever is welcome. She is one amazing girl though.

 

I dont see anything wrong with the age gap.....just gotta figure out how this will work from that far away............

 

I wouldn't do it.

15 and 18 are still VERY different places to be in. At 18, I was living on my own. At 15, I wasn't even thinking about a job.

If she's willing to leave someone for you, what's to say she won't leave you for someone who she perceives to be better? It's not quite as bad as a cheater, but I still think that because it happens once, the potential for it happening again is high (I realize you're also doing this, and it's not fair the either of your guys' partners)


And an hour and a half apart.... LDR's can take A LOT of work. You have to be very willing to make it work. Work hard at it, WANT it badly, both of you. They're a lot harder than people think they are. It's a rare 15 year old that's mature enough to handle the upkeep required for an LDR.

 

Almost 16 and 18 isn't that bad, especially if watching the wheels is still in high school. I think it's a bit sneaky and mean to both your girlfriend and her boyfriend though.

 

Both of you should break up with your current partners -- save them the pain of being with someone who doesn't really care for them.

As for trying to be together, well, I would never consider dating a guy who said he would dump his gf for me -- after all, why should I not expect the same treatment in a week or a month or whenever? But, hey, if that's what you're looking for...

 

I dont think the age is a big deal. but you should have never let it go so far b/c you have a gile friend! and she should not have ether. Think about how ypu girlfriend would feel.