I dont see where you guys find all this time but see why you do.. If have kind I rated my arousal from 1-10 1 I just came recently do hard and fkr a number of factors could n ok t com if Kate Upton were blowing ne... lol 2- I am only not aroused but moderately arousable at different levels 3 a level where I have half boner and/or random thought or image will give me wood instantly. 4 I have wood but am far from ponr 5 Is a level I can reach with or without any physical stimulation. Can get here making out with my wife or erotica. 6 I am very aroused and can easily slip out of control and quickly climaxed or advance to 7 within 15 -90 seconds of quick stroking my wife sucking ..etc. should point out I can be in this state without wood. 7 I am feeling the euphoric state that comes just before I shoot. This is the state that we usually encounter briefly when progressing to 8. One if the things I can do here is lower hand lower and try not to stimulate the head. At the very end I will use tiny, slow strokes. This allows me from remain at this state several minutes or for a long period. 8 I am climaxing and or having ejaculatory contractions and am past ponr. 9 I am ejacating 10 post ejaculation 7 is where I find the sweet spot. I have had powerful contraction here without advancing if I squeeze. I maintain this state precum starts oozing. I try to never "slip" and just come. This is because the ejaculation will not be as powerful for some reason. The best thing to do is stop for a few minutes before resuming. I found this to be critical for a satifying/Mind blowing finale. Sometimes I will get to 7, will stop, pull up my pants and go about my business. As others reported this usually changes my whole body's physical state. I experience a slight tension and nausea. It sometimes subsides but usually not till I bust a load.
#7........That is the sweet spot for sure..... It's not that I have tons of time to sit around and edge all day, but when I do find time to 'self cultivate...' I want to make the most of it and make it last. Edging allows me to have several or many 70% orgasms at the #7 point and then finish, vs. just one and done.. Or, like you mentioned, sometimes stop at #7, and then pick it up later or save it for sex....
Practice, practice, practice. Once you figure it out, it's quite addicting and you'll rarely do a quickie again.
I don't do it that often, but at times if for some reason I am alone for several hours and want to prolong it. I will take it close, stop for a few minutes... come back and go again...stop... maybe even an hour later so at at it again. WHenever I do that, yes the cum shot is like a canon.
I LOVE edging, done by someone of course. I have a strong desire to ejaculate though, so I don't keep it for days. But, if I know I will have it, I leave myself alone and let her bring a bigger ejaculation.
Spent an hour last night, the last 1/2 hour was spent on the edge but didn’t let myself go over. Tonight being Friday night, I’m thinking I’d like to spend a few hours and then see how long I can take this through the 3 day weekend!!!
I have never thought of putting numeric values to the stage but what they make sense. I have found that if I do a long hard legal once I feel an ejaculatory contraction coming on I can stop the process and the ejaculation most times. I will say that it DOES suck if at this stage if I simply "slip" into stage 9 or ten. The orgasm is weak and lacks the pleasure of the other stages where the actual enjoyment really occurs. For example I can stay in level 7 for a while. I will feel almost as if I am coming, like little, tiny orgasms. At this stage (if I gave been in it for a while) prettycum will be oozing out. I have heard people waiting many days of not coming to maximize the pleasure. While this is true for me I don't see much of a difference between abstaining for more than 3-4 days. I am not sure if the pleasure or load size is much different. Messy is fun LOL.
Well, it's like do you want a dozen or more longer #7 orgasms plus a final #9, or do you want just one quick #10??
Edging is pretty much all I do. But I don’t cum at the end. Several years ago my wife and I entered into an agreement. I am not allowed to cum unless she allows me to. And she rarely allows me to. So when I play, edging is all I can do. This agreement was my idea, she didn’t force it on me. But it’s been pretty wild. She teases the hell out of me, making me want badly to cum, but she denies me to cum. It keeps me horny all the time, my life is a giant edging session, that’s been going on for years.
Hell yes I love edging except that in my case I want to ejaculate when I get it. I was edged with bj, hj and titfucks.
My thoughts, screw the “science” and just enjoy the edging, let it ejaculate each edging session, let your body get what it needs and repeat.
I love edging, I usually wait for the weekend when I have lots of time the longest I've edged for is about 6 hours. I wank right up to I feel I'm going to blow my load then leave my cock alone for a few minutes, and just continue doing that until I can't take it any longer and finally let myself cum all over myself, if an average orgasm is 7-8 out of 10 an edging orgasm is definitely a 10 every time. the orgasms are absolutely mind blowing.
Actually, I have it to the point that I can "ride the wave" if you will and stay at level 7 (see my comment above) for an extended period of time. Instead of stopping when you feel close to ponr, simply stop earlier and revert to a slower stroke. In my case I lower my hand as to not stimulate the head. I will start oozing precum. Fun just know after some time "slipping" will be easy and will ruin the orgasm. For this a pause for a bit then beat it like it owes me money....explosion..
Edge for 2 to 3 hours and cum, have a cup of tea and start again, sometimes do this for 12 to 13 hours continually and cum 4 or more times, I'm retired so have all the time in the world, it's my favourite past time